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⌈ Secret Post #3243 ⌋

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Comments

Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Being a furry.

+1

[(Anonymous)]

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[diet_poison]

other than "not aligning with me on basic life outlooks/decisions (kids, religion, where to live, etc.)" and "not being an asshole" which I think apply to most people, here are a few of mine:

+not being able to live with dogs
+smoking
+not being comfortable over 75F
+constantly getting drunk (I'd prefer to be with someone who does drink socially, but drunkenness is no thanks)

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

I didn't know religion was a basic life outlook that partners needed to "align" with.

You do realize that being free to marry outside one's faith is kind of a big positive thing?

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

+not being comfortable over 75F

ah, yes. The Patriarctic. I am on-board with this

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

I will not date a conservative, ever. Not even a Liberal Democrat or a nu-labourite. Kippers are right out.

Also people who slag off Brussels sprouts as a vegetable. I like 'em.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Crying. Or crying in front of me.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Clingy or an asshole. Doesn't like animals. Really short. Bad hygiene.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Racism or anti-Semitism.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[herpymcderp]

Disgusting/unhygenic personal habits. I once knew a girl who would leave used menstrual pads on the floor in her room.

That pretty much killed every boner I could ever have had for her.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Aside from being an asshole...

* smoker
* frequent/heavy drinker
* drugs - I'm including pot. I'm all for legalization, but I don't want to date someone who uses them.
* politically conservative
* I'm also souring on Libertarians, but will go on a case by case basis. If you worship Ayn Rand, then nah.
* very religious
* too attached to mother/mama's boy - I don't mean merely having a good relationship with your mother, but being unhealthily attached
* wants kids (because I'm getting too old for kids and do not want any)

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[aenrhien]

Smokers. I don't care if you used to smoke, but if you're a current smoker of anything other than pot, please fuck right off away from me. I live with a very heavy smoker who throws a toddler-level hissyfit (she's 51) whenever she has to go more than 10-15 minutes without a cigarette, and I refuse to be with someone who could potentially get to that point.

Also, assholes. Not as in "opinionated and likes to debate", but as in, racist/homophobic/etc and/or tries to force their opinions on other people because they're children who can't handle people thinking differently than they do. Those kinds of people can fuck right the fuck off, because I'm likely to hit them.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Poor personal hygiene, abusive, rude/dismissive to service people, cruel to animals, doesn't take care of themselves, doesn't eat vegetables (yes, REALLY), sexual incompatibility.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

It seems like I'm in the minority on this, but I feel like sexual compatibility is probably at the top for me (or at least tied with the other things) because it's such a huge aspect of a relationship and I've seen SO MANY relationships not work because the people had different interests/views on it/whatever.

Otherwise, religion, politics, having kids and smoking/drinking/drugs are the big ones.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Being me.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[nightscale]

- Poor personal hygiene.
- Smoking.
- Cruel to animals.
- Wanting kids(possibly wanting to get married as well but I flip flop more on that).
- And being a huge bigot of any kind.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[cbrachyrhynchos]

I'm in a relationship, so likely most things other than my partner.

Tobacco, drug abuse, fundamental differences of religion, don't know that I'd be interested in dating a straight person again.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[iceyred]

Desperation. And drugs. Keep all that shit away from me.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Passive-aggressive behavior.

Petty cruelty. When given a choice between being kind or being unnecessarily mean, they choose to be mean.

Criminal activity.

Smoking.

Doesn't like cats.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

-Hates animals, especially cats. I don't trust people who hate cats, and anyway, I'm keeping my kitty no matter what.
-Isn't out to family. (I'm gay) I mean, I'll date people in the closet but I don't have it in me anymore to be in a serious relationship with someone who isn't out to at least their immediate family and friends.
-Doesn't have a career (not just a "job") or, if not that, at least serious ambition about what they want to do. Ideally that aligns with their work, but if it's something you do and develop on your own, like music, writing, whatever, that's fine too. They just need aspirations, and something that they're building themselves for.
-Heavily drinks or does hard drugs. Even regular smoking would be hard for me.
-Doesn't want kids. Kids are something I really want in the future.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Some of the other suggestions would apply to me (no smokers/heavy drinkers please) but I'd add to that picky eaters. Very petty, but I couldn't see myself living with and sharing meals with someone who either refuses to be open minded about food or has a huge range of foods they won't eat. This isn't the same thing as a person with food allergies, but to be honest, I'd probably have trouble with that as well.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Cheating.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

Having an unattractive face/body.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

[(Anonymous)]

+ smoker, heavy drinker, does drugs
+ politically conservative
+ doesn't like or at least tolerate animals and especially if they're weird about non-cat or dog pets
+ wants kids
+ doesn't align with my sense of humor– no one has to laugh at all my jokes but if you don't even realize I'm joking then we probably won't get along... also those people who don't get sarcasm ever are completely out b/c fuck dealing with that
+ gun owner