[ SECRET POST #3494 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3494 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[One Punch Man]


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[Overwatch, Genji/Zenyatta]


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Comments

Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

You know you want to.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

I am so sick of my friends starting political discussions, and then getting mad at me for responding.

Like, I'm sorry, I didn't realize you just wanted me to go "oh I totes agree with you.'

(What's funny is often, I'm not even disagreeing. I'm explaining why people think such and such. One time I was flat-out agreeing and still got in "trouble" because... reasons, I guess?)

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[sarillia]

What I hate is when I disagree with the specific argument a person is making and they assume I disagree with their entire worldview and am one of the enemy. If I hear something that doesn't make sense to me then I say so, I don't care if I agree with the larger point the person is trying to make. People don't seem to get that.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[dethtoll]

Get better friends.

(Out of curiosity, what are your friends' ages?)

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

Ahaha yeah. Because of this, I just don't respond to some friends' political discussions anymore, because they obviously just want an echo chamber.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

My coworker has started pointing out every time I do anything wrong, and I don't know if I'm just taking it personally, or if she needs to scale back.

I mean, I am screwing up, though I don't really know why. But there's things I seriously would've just let go if I'd been her. OTOH, to be fair, I have messed up on some larger things, so maybe she's... trying to help?

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[kallanda_lee]

Is she a coworker or an authority figure? Cause it seems that would,n't be the job of a regular coworker?

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, there are a few things to think about. Do your mistakes affect other people? You're downplaying them a lot in your comment, but I'm kind of betting they do. Also this phrase stands out: "I am screwing up, though I don't really know why".

That's not good. If you don't know why you're making mistakes, it's going to be damn near impossible to stop. I guess the question I have is why don't you know? Is there a chance that you actually DO know, but shrugging and going "I dunno" is your way of (again) downplaying the mistakes you're making and possibly also downplaying the aggravation and extra work you're creating for the people you work with?

All that aside, it can be highly frustrating to work with someone who keeps screwing up all the time and doesn't seem to care. I get that it stings to have your mistakes brought up, but the best way to avoid that is to focus on the tasks you're supposed to do and make sure they get done accurately, and in a timely manner.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

I've shamed women for breastfeeding in public when I was younger.

I no longer do, because over the years I've learned it's apparently a huge feminist issues and realize I was being an ass either way.

It still grosses me out immensely, but I realize that is my problem, not theirs. I just remove myself from the situation, and avoid places that are actively baby-friendly.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

It grosses me out even now, and I'm female. Then again, I'm ace and have no desire to have kids (and if I did, I'd adopt). It just makes me really uncomfortable to see that and I nope out of there as quickly as possible.

I don't outright shame them, but from my body language it's pretty clear I'm uncomfortable (general anxious behavior, nervous laughing, etc.).

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

It's great that you have changed your point of view in this topic. As a mom of a toddler who was breastfed until almost 3 (cue the ewwww) I get that there are people who are uncomfortable with seing breast exposed in this context. Honestly, I think normalizing it would make a lot of peoplesimply never develop that feeling of discomfort. StI'll if someone chooses to remove themselves from a situation like that I wouldn't hold it against them, of course. Unless they are a close friend or relative. Then I'd like some sort of heads up like "I don't mind you breastfeeding. It's just that I feel uncomfortable so i'll be over there until you're done"

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[dethtoll]

I'm not too put out by public breast-feeding, but I avoid baby-friendly places as a general rule because I can't stand them. (They're just future people I probably won't like, anyway.)

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

is it really that common to see? I think I've only seen women breastfeeding in a public place like twice in my life

TMI sex stuff

[(Anonymous)]

Uhhhh I let my bf come all over my chest but it was super...liquidy today and straight ran down my stomach right down to my vulva before I even knew it was happening. Should I be freaking out? I may be a tiny little bit freaking out.

Re: TMI sex stuff

[kallanda_lee]

Probably not, but if you're really paranoid get a morning after pill.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

I recently found out my sister's boyfriend is still legally married, and apparently just needs to sign the paperwork but hasn't got around to it yet.

I like the guy, but I can't help finding that a little worrisome.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[kallanda_lee]

You should probably tell your sister.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

On the one hand, by the time people actually file for divorce, they've usually already checked out of the relationship emotionally and have tried and failed at counseling or whatever attempts they were going to make to save it. The fact that he's still legally married pending finalization of the divorce isn't a problem unless you want it to be.

On the other hand, if finalization of the divorce is only waiting on his signature and he just can't be bothered, then that's potentially troubling since it could suggest he might not be over his ex, or he might not be ready to commit to someone else, or he might not care enough about your sister or any other future partners to actually make himself available to marry them, or he isn't in a hurry to make himself available, or he might be trying to punish his ex by preventing her from marrying anyone else.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

I'd worry, too. At worst, it might suggest he's not really ready to let go of his marriage for whatever reason. At best, it suggests he's kind of absent-minded and a slacker about getting important stuff done, even if his part in it is super easy. Neither of those are a great foundation for a relationship.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

This is not uncommon. My best friend's Dad and his fiance are both still legally married to other people, and it definitely isn't a case of them still hanging on to their previous relationships

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

why is finding clothing that's good quality that also fits my body so haaaaard

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

Learn to sew, and you will never have this problem again.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

I hate sloppy sloppy joes. I put the meat neatly on the bun to eat.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[feotakahari]

Employee E at my job stole money and tried to frame employee K for it. After E was fired, someone whom E owed a thousand dollars came looking for him. I just stood by and watched while K gave him E's home address. I know it was wrong, but E repeatedly tried to convince my boss that I was a terrible worker and should be fired, so I didn't feel like intervening on his behalf.

Re: Non-fandom confessions.

[(Anonymous)]

I cannot take my mother's attitude and bullshit any longer and I have nowhere to escape to. I don't know what to do.