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(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)I'm having one of those moments where I feel like I dodged a bullet by avoiding this fandom.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)I'm having one of those moments where I feel like I dodged a bullet by avoiding this fandom.
That makes me sad, because there were awesome parts of it. There really were. You just had to find it.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)So, like, I can't even imagine calling someone a racial slur, or a homophobic slur or anything like that. Because I have been socialized to know that it's a horrible, hateful thing that you Just Don't Do, no matter what. Whereas it's not impossible to imagine lashing out and calling someone...idk, like, a loser, I guess. Or a pathetic asshole. Words that would be designed to hurt, but that aren't actually slurs. And I think a lot of the time when people say Snape was just lashing out when he called Lily a mudblood, they're thinking about the term mudblood more like we think of words like pathetic, loser, weirdo. I mean, they know it's a slur, but they're not thinking of it with the societal and sociological weight of a true slur.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)Huh.
(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Huh.
(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Huh.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)He later realized he was taught these things by the environment and he was bisexual and now he doesn't use that slur.
Guess what? The opposite is true, too! You can be pretty unprejudiced before you go to school, and then leave home and encounter views and be caught up in things that prey on vulnerable people, too. Like how Snape himself wasn't even Good Enough for the purebloods, but they saw someone to take advantage of.
(Hi I'm tired of having this argument because if he was prejudiced before he met her, it sure as fuck didn't show in any of his actions or anything when it 100% would have.)
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)Second, I don't think that the argument is about when, exactly, Snape becmae a racist - whether it was at school or before school. The point is that Snape was a Magical Racist, and that's part of the reason that he chose to use that slur against Lily, as opposed to the idea that Snape wasn't magically racist and just randomly accidentally happened to blurt out a slur.
Third, even if you're bullied, that's not a justification for being a Magical Racist and joining a Magical Racist gang, which is also pretty strong evidence of being a Magical Racist.
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(Anonymous) 2018-11-18 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)I don't find it worse, considering all that had happened between them at that point. They'd begun drifting, she dated a guy who relentlessly bullied him (which yeah, can feel like a massive betrayal when said bully "got better" but never once fucking apologized to you, because then you wonder if they really even feel sorry or changed at all or are just putting up a front because they want in your friend's pants), all the while the only people offering him any kind of acceptance being a bad crowd. Which, I will reiterate what I said to the anon above: that's what real world gangs do. They're predatory. They prey on vulnerable youth. Like people who are bullied. People who have shit home lives. ETC.
It sucks he became such an awful person. It doesn't change that he does, but fandom has a distinct tendency to decide that if you do bad things you were always bad and evil and that you couldn't have possibly been a victim of circumstances that led you down a really bad road (which deserves a little sympathy but not anything that excuses the actions, because they could have been better).
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