[ SECRET POST #4390 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4390 ⌋

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Comments

What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

Everyone's got one. What's yours?

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[morieris]

You're not bothering me.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

People have identities.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[kaijinscendre]

I got too much going on in my life to worry about what other people are doing as long as they are not hurting anyone.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

Pretty much sums up my thoughts.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

It's hard for me to wrap my mind around, but I refer to people however they like.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

I don't get it, but since it literally has zero affect on me, you do you, and I'll address you however you please because it's no skin off my nose to be polite.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

I've got no problem with them and I'll refer to people as whatever they want me to when I talk about them to other people. I also believe that at least half of people identifiying as NB are either girls who don't understand that being a woman can be so much more than the mainstream depiction of The Feminine Ideal, or people who desperately cling to the closest thing they've got to not being a cishet.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

Why "at least half"? I mean, where are you getting that estimate?

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah this is why I don't understand what NB is supposed to mean, because in my experience, the people I have seen who identify as NB are girls with short hair who dress boyishly.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

hard same. idk what percentage of people are just claiming the label so that someone doesn't ask them about pink and dresses and makeup and shopping but it's not zero.

you do you, kids, just make sure you're doing you and not someone else's idea of you.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[nanslice]

I'm unbothered.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[philstar22]

My opinion is that my opinion doesn't matter. As long as you aren't forcing it on someone else, who cares? People can figure out their own identity for themselves. People who take offense at a person's label of their own selves as if it somehow hurts them are ridiculous.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

I think they're a fad and pretty ridiculous and will take people less seriously if they claim to identify that way but I don't care enough to be overtly antagonistic about it. Helps that there aren't really any pronouns for it in my country and it's only just starting to be a thing here.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

I have no problem with people identifying as such, and I will try to respect their identity. I don't entirely understand being nonbinary myself, but I don't think all these people are just making it up. I believe it's a thing.

The only thing I have an issue with is people asking to be referred to as "it." No, I will not. If I have to refer to you as "it" in order for you to feel I am respecting your identity, I'm just going to have to not refer to you at all, because I will never be comfortable calling a person "it." That said, I've only come across this problem a couple of times, and both times were online. Never in RL. So it would be disingenuous to act like it's some big problem.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[tabaqui]

Don't care? I mean - not in a bad way. It's just another state of being, so - good on them and let's just keep on keeping on.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[nightscale]

It doesn't bother me at all, if you're not hurting anyone live how you want.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

For the most part I don't care. If someone wants to be called he, she, or they, I'll happily do it. But as the other anon said, I don't feel comfortable calling someone it. And there was someone who played a game I did who wanted to be referred to with tiger pronouns (so like tigerself), and I think that is ridiculous.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[raspberryrain]

I have a lot of thoughts about it. I bite my tongue because some of my Tumblr kids are nb or trans.

I found the term "non-binary" really weird for a long time. If you're a "non-binary" are you saying I'm a "binary"? What does that even mean?

I mean, I know what it means, ok? But semantically, I hate that they went with "non-binary" instead of something like "extra-binary," "out-binary," or "post-binary." It makes it sound like "you're a binary and I'm not."

So fine, I'm a binary now. I contain dualities or somethin'.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[thewakokid]

In practice it's a simple live and let live.

in the privacy of my own head? I don't get it. and the bit's I do get I don't really believe

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

I don’t care what people identify as.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

I think I am non binary (specifically agender, mentioned it here before) but I also I know that, where I live, who I know, what I look like, what I do - basically no one would take me seriously or even begin to respect it. So mostly I just feel jealous of the people that feel like being openly non binary is an option for them.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

It’s fine.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[chamonix]

None of my business and it costs me nothing to refer to people how they choose.

Re: What's your opinion on nonbinary identities?

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly, whatever. Just don't force shit on me, that's all I ask.