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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-04-09 05:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #5208 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5208 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Shoot 'Em Up (resized)]


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[Banana Fish]


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05. [SPOILERS for Kids Baking Championship]



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06. [SPOILERS for Big Little Lies S2]
[WARNING for discussion of rape]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of suicide]

[ID: Invaded]


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09. [WARNING for discussion of noncon (probably?)]
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[personal profile] fscom 2021-04-09 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
08. [WARNING for discussion of rape]
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tw: pedophilia, csa

(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the general anti-anti opinion is that like... even if what you're saying is true, who cares? Seriously, I have never gotten a straight answer on this. Why is it bad, on some societal level, to be into gross shit?

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(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
SA

whoops, left the tws because I went on a rant about my own experience with an actual child molester and how so many people in fandom are hypocrites, but deleted it bc I decided it wasn't worth the fight lol

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(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
So two things

One, I think it is true that, to some extent, depictions of things in media influence societal mores and what we see as normal. There is some linkage - not a one-to-one linkage, but some chain of causality - between how things are depicted in the media we consume, and how we understand the world.

And two, I think even if there's not broad societal harm, people still have a right to feel revulsion towards certain topics and depictions of things, and to want not to be associated with them in any way. And in fact most people do feel revulsion towards things like pornographic depictions of fictional children.

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(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Way too often people think that because they find something repulsive (which is fair!) that it's also dangerous. And if enough people feel that way, you get a moral panic on your hands.

If niche porn had that much influence, all the nsfw-loving furries would have made zoophilia completely socially acceptable. And step-siblings would be fucking like rabbits.

Lolicon, Satanism, rock music, comic books -- it's the same argument played out again and again, decade after decade. I wonder what'll be next.

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OP

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
I think it's the mainstream-ness of anime and manga that's an issue. Kinda breaks my heart to see some light novels get incredibly high budget animation, marketing campaigns, and top tier VA talent get imported over, and find out that the story is pretty much porn about wanting to fuck your little sister. Or like in the case of GATE and multiple other light novelists, the writer loves to drop dog whistles about how much they love certain IRL genocides.

Being an anime fan incurs being disappointed by certain aspects that go into the creation of anime, whether it's the mangaka themselves, or maybe certain aspects of Japanese culture that are misogynistic and maybe affect depictions of female characters.

Except for the unfortunately common strain of anime fans who unironically love all the loli, ahegao pfps, and rape, and are responsible for the meme of a person with an anime pfp being 80% likely to call you a slur. 4channers, I guess?

Anime fandom has its certain discussion points. Don't normalize certain anime tropes. Dont be a weeaboo who thinks that all Japanese people love anime. Etc. I don't care what noncon happens in a fic on ao3, but it's different when it's a mainstream production. Like hello? No one wants to talk about all the rape and lolicon incest in a show that's not labeled as porn? This is the anime of the year material? This? We're giving money to this author?

Tl;dr, sorry for the rambling response. When mainstream shows say its cool to be into sniffing your little sister's undies, I'll complain a tiny bit. Western media fandoms doesn't have this problem so much.

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(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Most of us aren't reading that stuff and only see these terms written about characters played by 39 year old men who happen to be 5'4".

It's that 'Danger of watering down terms' thing I get so upset about.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, I do think all those OTT "evil protagonists going around raping women" are shit but a show where the "hero" rapes people is very likely not for minors so I couldn't care less if minors whine about these shows, they shouldn't be watching them in the first place.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Right??

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
Do you realize the World Wide Web is now a reality and kids don't even know the expected demographics/censorship of a thing before they download it, much often?

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(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I always wonder what fandoms this crops up in because I've never seen it in any of mine, I'm not saying it isn't a thing I'm just curious as to why my fandoms seem to be completely absent of it. It is an anime/cartoon fandom thing?

(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I think it's a generational and genre thing. In western media, there are some rock performers who play with Lolita, but it's pretty clear that they're not adolescents.

The 80s though.... Between all the songs about sexy schoolgirls and best-selling novelists being weird about underage sexuality....

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(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not saying it isn't a thing I'm just curious as to why my fandoms seem to be completely absent of it.

Seconding this. I believe it's a thing. Enough people talk about it that it's clearly a real thing. But I've never seen it happening first hand.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I was really confused about what child-coding was, wondering if it had something to do with aging up characters in AUs again - and then remembered that you get characters who are suppose to be 50 looking like they're 12 in anime.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-09 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
~Child coding~ is an absolute fucking bullshit concept. Infantilization is real (and gross), but it is not the same thing as ~child coding.~ If the term was EXCLUSIVELY used to refer to the stupid "she looks 12 but is really a 600 year old dragon so it's okay to sexualize the shit out of her" stuff, I might feel that the people who use it have a point, but I have seen you folks use it for practically every character, including CANONICALLY FULLY MATURE ADULTS, that you don't want shipped with another character, with the most transparently fake excuses, purely as an excuse to call your NOTPs problematic, and I am just over it.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
+1, it is not a real thing. No one has ever been able to point out a real example of the ~child-coding~ of a grown-ass character that doesn't dangerously dip into "anyone that shows any sign of neurodivergence is childlike," which like... bruh.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
Just to be clear, though, it is absolutely okay to sexualize the shit out of a 600 year old dragon who looks like a 12 year old girl if she's a cartoon character. It's also absolutely okay to sexualize the shit out of a 12 year old girl if she's a cartoon character. It's okay to sexualize the shit out of actual SHIT. It's okay to sexualize anything that doesn't have feelings.

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(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
What I don't get is how this damages you - IA that child-coded should refer to 600 year old dragons in the body of 8 year old girls but.
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[personal profile] feotakahari 2021-04-10 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
I disagree, because child coding isn't always a sex thing. Look at Spongebob Squarepants--sometimes he's implied to be a child in order to make a particular joke, and sometimes he's implied to be an adult in order to make a different joke. He can be coded one way or another, but he can't explicitly be one or the other, because that would cut off possible jokes.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
I'm aware that a secret maker did this and it's such a poor image choice. Try any lolicon next time.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe lolicon didn't occur to them? Maybe they didn't want to sift through pictures of loli characters trying to find an suitable image? They're not getting paid to do this.

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(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
Characters I have seen described as child-coded:
- Short adults
- Flat-chested adult women
- Asexual adults
- Autistic adults
- Sexually-inexperienced men
- Robots
- Talking animals (age usually not given, but physically mature)

And of course, the only one that most people actually agree with: anime girls who are *totally* ancient demon lords or goddesses or w/e, but who just so happen to look 12 and wear bikinis at all times (looking at you, TenSura).

I've also seen - and I think this is relevant to the overall subject - actual real world existing human women be accused of naïvety in dating men, because those women are short and have small breasts, so obviously men are only dating them because they're covert paedophiles!!! This is an argument I have seen made in all apparent earnestness.

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
A distressing amount of people seem to think that defending women involves infantilizing us and refusing to believe that we have literally any agency of our own. Like, holy shit, stop trying to protect me from myself, please.

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Hey OP

(Anonymous) 2021-04-10 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
OP, what's the anime? C'mon OP, give us a title. What's the anime that you watched as a kid where the protagonist rapes someone and it's not given another thought?

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OP, i just got off work

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