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(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)Oh, fuck off.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)Yeah, seriously. One comment from someone who think it's okay to tell racists to fuck off, and some people assume that person must be, what, inventing the racism/bigotry? Like there's no real bigotry online, and the comment OP must be exaggerating or inventing it? WTAF???
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)My issue is that there are lots of people online labelling things as bigotry when they aren't, thus trivializing real bigotry and making it easier for the genuine bigots to get away with it.
Also, screaming insults at people is not the only way to address such things, and is unlikely to produce real change.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)My issue is that there are lots of people online labelling things as bigotry when they aren't, thus trivializing real bigotry and making it easier for the genuine bigots to get away with it.
But it seems pretty clear that not all accusations of bigotry are wrong, or are cases where someone is trivializing real bigotry, or whatever. If someone says "I don't like bigots", it's at least possible that they have real bigots in mind.
I mean, do you have any specific examples of people on this comm making bad accusations of bigotry in mind? What's the rationale for the assumption that that was going on here? It seems like a big jump to make to me.
Also, screaming insults at people is not the only way to address such things, and is unlikely to produce real change.
OK but if that's what you think, how does that then walk on over into implying people you disagree with are incapable of introspection or humility?
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 12:44 am (UTC)(link)As for examples, well, Sam Wilson stans insinuating that if anyone doesn't like him as much as they do, doesn't like him the way they do, or would have preferred a different character as Cap, it can only be because that person is racist. There's also the time someone got dogpiled because they said they thought of Korra as lesbian. And that lovely contingent who thought it was just fine to try to get a man fired from his job because they don't like the church they thought he went to and the beliefs they thought he had.
For your third, it never occurs to them to stop and ask if that person really meant what they thought they said, or it was a matter of poor wording. Or to ask them why they think that way. They just assume that they know everything, are automatically right about everything, and their (in most cases) very narrow worldview is the correct one. They just assume that they know where the other person is coming from, when in fact they don't.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-31 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)As far as "taking away from someone" by headcanoning, sure, a headcanon is a headcanon and within your own head does no harm, but when bisexuals face bi erasure CONSTANTLY in their every day life, they deserve to be able to look at even just a silly fictional character and say "she's bi just like me" and not be slapped back with biphobic arguments about someone's sexuality being defined by their current partner's gender over and over and over.
Signed, a lesbian who wants more lesbian characters as much as the next lesbian but supports bisexuals because they get shit too
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)I have never once seen is not the equivalent of saying they never have. There is no claim of knowledge here beyond public actions and words.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)Second - even if you take the comment as a very limited and pedantic statement about nonny's knowledge, it's still not correct. Because we are talking about anonymous posts here. Nonny does not know whether or not they have seen "someone like the AYRT" display introspection or any inkling of humanity, because the post is anonymous. So it is in fact entirely possible that they *have* seen someone like the AYRT, or even the AYRT themselves, display introspection / humility. They have literally no way of knowing. Even on the most literal reading possible, it's not a reasonable thing to say.
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(Anonymous) 2022-10-30 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)The lack of self-awareness is strong with this one.
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