[ SECRET POST #6286 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #6286 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.



__________________________________________________



02.



__________________________________________________



03.
[Homebrewing]



__________________________________________________



04.



__________________________________________________



05.



__________________________________________________



06.



__________________________________________________



07.



__________________________________________________



08.



__________________________________________________



09.



































Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #898.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

It really isn’t. If they were insisting the author change it or everyone reject neopronouns then yeah, you’d be right. But most of the trans community hates those pronouns and they’re almost exclusively used by American middle class suburban white girls.

[(Anonymous)]

Um no. Neo pronouns are not only used by the trans community.

[(Anonymous)]

Where is anyone not respecting someone’s pronouns? Changing neopronouns in fic to they/them isn’t transphobic or denying anyone their pronouns. And if I encountered someone who chose those as their pronouns then of course I’d use them. But I never have. I’ve literally only seen a few pickme girls use them and usually in place of someone’s chosen pronouns of they/them.

[(Anonymous)]

Pick me is about women throwing other women under the bus in favor of men's approval or attention, not someone using pronouns you find cringe.

[(Anonymous)]

You are in the right but you are arguing with trolls. Save your blood pressure and scroll on by.

[(Anonymous)]

Where is anyone not respecting someone’s pronouns?

in the secret, friendo

[(Anonymous)]

People lie; people adopt signifiers to draw attention to themselves; people use identity to manipulate and gain power over others. To say that it's always transphobic to reject a pronoun is to say that it's perfectly fine to do all of this, that there can be no way of noticing it, acknowledging it, and calling it out.

You are advocating for the use of identity to get away with treating others poorly, to being narcissistic, and to, in far too many cases, being emotionally abusive. Someone does not suddenly become a good, untouchable person by declaring themselves trans or nonbinary, and not only do you excuse the mistreatment of others by failing to recognize this, but you doom the cause. People do not want to line up behind self-centered histrionic assholes! And if you continually prop up the self-centered histrionic assholes, and make excuses for them, and paint anyone who calls them out as bigots, then guess what? People are going to think that the movement is made up of self-centered histrionic assholes.

Someone who adopts a ridiculous, tumblr-generated neopronoun is an attention-seeking jackass and should not be taken seriously. Period. They are someone who is using the existence of trans people to get away with acting like a fool, and we would all do better to disavow them rather than indulge them.

[(Anonymous)]

+1000

[(Anonymous)]

'they’re almost exclusively used by American middle class suburban white girls'

and as we all know, if white girls do anything too much - its definitely bad and worthless.
Also this is not true if you actually look into various queer communities and not like one tag on Tumblr to validate that half-assed opinion.

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry, I don’t use tumblr. I’m only going by personal experience as someone in the community. And yeah, it’s pretty gross to be Little Miss Suburbanite’s Cause of the Month.

[(Anonymous)]

I would have believed you were maybe not transphobic (I am not cis and don't like neopronouns either) until you said "girls."

[(Anonymous)]

but they're the queer Jason Borne, who travels to all the queer communities and keep finding evil 'rich white American girls' who use neopronouns. Tragic tale </3

[(Anonymous)]

The point being that it IS primarily girls using them for other people. Often despite those people clearly stating they choose they/them. Because it isn’t about personal choice, it’s about bored rich American girls pretending they’re saving the poor marginalized people because they’re the only ones who can do it. They’re the same ones that made and sold Black Lives Matter shirts with their Cricuts in 2020 instead of supporting black owned businesses.

[(Anonymous)]

And as we all know, if someone talks about something that they've noticed girls specifically tend to do, then it means they hate trans people.

[(Anonymous)]

girls

days since a transphobe has assumed all nonbinary people are afab: 0

(frozen comment)

[(Anonymous)]

99% of them are, because 99% of nonbinary people are women with internalized misogyny.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know if their experience is true or not but they are talking about women who use neo pronounces for other people

[(Anonymous)]

Sadly this is where transphobes like to congeal and make it everybody else's problem.

[(Anonymous)]

You calling OP bro is transphobic sexist. You should have said xhro.

[(Anonymous)]

btw, what are your opinions on asexuals.

[(Anonymous)]

I like 'em.

[(Anonymous)]

Nah, that's making it readable.

[(Anonymous)]

+1