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fandomsecrets2011-04-07 03:44 pm
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-07 07:57 pm (UTC)(link)If this was part of the reason you actually broke up it sounds like your relationship was dead in the water already.
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-07 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)Personally, I'd be kinda worried if my boyfriend DID sympathize with an awful, misogynistic rapist like Warren.
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Right. Well.
Hm.
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He makes amazing technology that could change the world. He could make TRILLIONS off the patents alone, and what does he use his inventions for? Crime and misogyny.
It's like inventing the cure for cancer and keeping it to yourself because you want to take up smoking.
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Warren is the least sympathetic character in the entire series, and given the atrocities commited by villans on a weekly basis for 7 years that's saying something.
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-07 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)Well, first, since so many people are telling me how awful a person I am, I'd like to point out I said that it was "part of the reason" we broke up. A whole huge slew of other things contributed to it, like the fact that I just don't love him. And, yeah, I'm ready for more attacks, I guess. But please don't comment on the state of my relationship that you have no idea about. In any case, this was a minor incident and the way he treated me when I mentioned my thoughts on Warren really hurt me. Being told that he basically doesn't care what I think? Hurt.
So here's what I think, for those of you genuinely interested and those of you looking for more hate alike: I think back to the first episode Warren was in, I Was Made To Love You, when Tara commented that you must have to be such a lonely person to have to create someone to love you. What made Warren the way he is? I doubt he just woke up one day and said, "You know what? I'm going to hate real hard on women from here on out." I find him very sad. I agree with Tara there; how lonely do you have to be to need to make a companion for yourself? (Adding to this real quick: I find it especially sad that Warren was responsible for the death of the only Scooby who probably had the capacity to offer him a hand and not condemn him.)
And I know what you're thinking: "Anon, stfu, she was a sex toy." Warren straight up tells us that April was more than just that. That she was a friend. He wanted, just like most people, to love and be loved--and, yes, he did go about it in a rather childish way and it was pretty fucked up when he abandoned her. The sympathizing, though, comes from that loneliness thing. And what I think must have started out as a desire to be loved. I just find it so sad, that's all.
Of course, that desire became twisted and mangled due to Warren't choices. Adam Busch commented on the character once, saying that Warren is always given the chance to do good, and yet he constantly makes the wrong choice. I think he's interesting because he is seriously smart enough to know the possible outcomes of his choices. I mean, he's a qualified genius, you can't dismiss that. So why does he always decide to do what he knows has such a good chance of fucking him over? He just isn't that stupid. And he keeps trying.
Yes, I know he goes over the edge. I watched the show. And I know he's an awful person. I never said I agree with the things he believes and think that it's super awesome he's a misogynist. I'm a girl, I do find the way he acts towards women straight-up disgusting and offensive. I never once said in that secret "Yay, misogyny! :D" Dumb. Although I guess I can understand how someone would assume that. Just... don't.
So... yeah. Basically, that's what I wanted to tell my boyfriend, and to have a serious discussion about the character and his psychology, and he just shook his head and refused to listen. Imagine a child throwing a fit. It was silly. I guess I'll answer any other questions someone has? Just, why do you have to be so quick to jump on the elehater?
...and this is ridiculously long. I'm sorry.
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The way I look at it, what he wanted was to be acknowledged, and when he had the power to force people to do so, everything went to hell. To me, the thing that really made him a villain was his refusal to admit what he'd done was wrong. He's the "Nice Guy" and "Man Child" tropes taken to their darkest extreme, and I found him fascinating. Reprehensible, yes, but fascinating.
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(Anonymous) 2011-04-07 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)OP for sympathizing with a FICTIONAL misogynist/rapist, even though they probably fap to mass-murdering villains with pretty faces.
Funny how fandom works. It's ok to sympathise --even sexualize-- a bad guy...just as long as they aren't sexist and have a nice face.
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I'm as surprised as the OP-
(Anonymous) 2011-04-08 03:18 am (UTC)(link)Jane Espenson said in an interview [and forgive me if this was already mentioned], that Warren's explanation of why he made and abandoned April is supposed to be a reflection of Buffy's relationship with Riley, and in that scene she was relating to him. Like, she sought out Riley as a replacement for love, but while outwardly perfect she couldn't really love him. Buffy's not some saint in the end, but I think that says -something-, about what they were trying to say about Warren. Even that Warren sought a girl with imperfections, like being admittedly a little bitchy and eccentric, I find that an indication of what kind of character he was supposed to be.
When Warren first starts losing his mind over things, like lashing out at Willow moments before his death, it seems that he wasn't always such a twitchy lunatic. Like this was a set-in. Bullying and emotional neglect or what-have-you are not grounds for the crimes he committed. But they can be. He was just a bad bad kid.
And I'm not gonna get into Season 8. Except to point out that despite an attempted Willow-lobotomy, his last big hoo-rah before dissolving was to protect Andrew.
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