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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 12:17 am (UTC)(link)A rape kink and, say, a Nazi torture kink both involve the reader getting off on seeing one person inflict suffering on another. The fact that one has racial/social/historical import attached to it doesn't change that.
(and don't think i'm another one of those "if you have a rape kink you are evil" anons! it's totally natural to get off on fictional(<--this part is super important) suffering)
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 12:47 am (UTC)(link)This is a really silly statement. This is me calling you on it vaguely to see if you're actually going to try to stand beside it.
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This is just as stupid as idiots who actually believe that ethnic cleansing and general genocide are basically the same
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 01:34 am (UTC)(link)(You don't have to answer if you think the question is too stupid, of course. Just thought I'd try! I'd honestly really like to understand the difference.)
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When Muammar al-Gaddafi kicked out all of the Italians in Libya in 1970 who'd been living there since 1911 when they colonized, that is an ethnic cleansing. When the British expelled the entire population of Deigo Garcia in the late '60's? Ethnic cleansing.
The Holocaust? Ethnic cleansing and genocide.
What happened in Turkey to the Armenians during WWI? Ethnic cleansing and genocide.
Because they are tied together, on occasion, the terms to get thrown around synonymously but they really aren't. Not entirely.
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 02:17 am (UTC)(link)no subject
So yeah, it doesn't always involve death.
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I think a good way to simplify it for people is to say that all genocide is ethnic cleansing but all ethnic cleaning is not genocide, although, of course, it is so much more complicated than that and deserves better explanation. But, for simplicity's sake, that a quick and easy way of putting it.
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 01:15 am (UTC)(link)I've literally never typed this before, ever, but . . . you sound white :?
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 01:55 am (UTC)(link)The victim choice, the aftermath, the level of dehumanization, etc. You have no problem acknowledging this is worse. But I as a rape survivor I would say that all of that is part of the rape. The aftermath and recovery of rape is part of the brutality of the rape. It's not just physical wounds, the mental pain is a huge part of it and - yes, a rape is worse if you're expected to clean the boots of the person who raped you the next day, if you're aware of it AS the rape happens, and hey, maybe passed on to the rapist's friends with no realistic hope of stopping it. Like. Yes. Easily. :\
This is especially ridiculous when you consider the context of this fight, fictionalized erotica. I don't know about you but the situation surrounding porn is pretty freaking important to the person with a fetish. Otherwise it wouldn't be a fetish? So the situation surrounding the rape is of particular importance in this discussion because it's what's getting people off.
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 02:04 am (UTC)(link)Obviously rape isn't measured in the amount of physical pain it inflicts on the victim. It's entirely possible to orgasm from rape, but that doesn't make it not rape.
What makes it rape is a lack of consent. A lack of control.
So a free person still has a degree of acknowledged control of themselves, even though it is being violated in the attack.
A slave has less consent, a slave has a complete lack of control. Making it a more severe rape, because in a sense their rights are already being violated with their every breath. This is additional violation on top of what they're constantly put through.
To speak of rape in terms of pain and violence alone is simplifying it beyond belief.
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(Anonymous) - 2011-05-05 17:05 (UTC) - Expand(no subject)
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(Anonymous) - 2011-05-05 17:23 (UTC) - Expandtw: rape, incest
(Anonymous) - 2011-05-07 12:39 (UTC) - Expand(no subject)
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(Anonymous) - 2011-05-07 12:41 (UTC) - ExpandTW for rape, sexual harassment and abusive relationships
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 02:38 am (UTC)(link)(Though it still makes an uncomfortable answer to the original anon's question of how can there be a hierarchy to human suffering when we're talking about violation of the body through rape and torture, when both actions imply the victims' complete lack of control.)
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 06:33 am (UTC)(link)Yep, that's the SJ brigade to a T. Loud mouthed and stupid.
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 01:34 am (UTC)(link)But during the actual rape? There's not that much of a difference.
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 01:57 am (UTC)(link)You're really disgusting.
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-07 01:15 pm (UTC)(link)Like, if I had just lost my home and was raped while wandering the streets, my first thought would not be "All of this on top of losing my home!"
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(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)