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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-09 07:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #1588 ]

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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2011-05-09 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
05. http://i52.tinypic.com/280m913.gif

[identity profile] interrobangings.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
uh

why

they're old

if i see guys kissing and i think they're unnattractive, i'm gonna be like 'ew'

just because she went ew at two guys kissing doesn't necessarily mean she's homophobic

i mean dude i'd go ew and i'm a gay man

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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
tone counts, all the time. there's a difference, however, between "ew, gay people, I find that morally gross." or "ew, gay kissing, not attracted to that at ALL."

the latter is perfectly okay. you can't really control what you're sexually repulsed by, in the same way you can't control what you're sexually attracted to. you can limit yourself to not expressing yourself in ways dangerous to yourself and others, and that's about it.

I'd give her the benefit of the doubt.

tl;dr you're not a better person if you get off to sex that a populational minority has.

[identity profile] loracarol.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
Well, if it was jsut because it was two guys, I feel your pain, but...

Honestly...

Just because of who it is, I'd probably have a little bit of an "ew" moment too...

Sorry OP. :/
ext_81845: penelope, my art/character (vaguely dissatisfied)

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Considering that they are both comedians I'm sure they just did it for the lolz

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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
When Vito Spatafore was kissing his male lover in The Soprano I couldn't even look at the TV. Not because they were both men, but because that poor man was the opposite of sexy and it was obvious that both actors felt very uncomfortable with the kiss. So you can say "ew" while watching two guys kissing and it doesn't always mean that you're homophobic.

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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
This just in: Some people don't find gay guys attractive. News at 10.

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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah it is very rude to say "Ew" even if the two people kissing ARE conventionally old/unattractive. I think its equally rude (and a little creepy) to say "Hot" though, so just shake hands with your mom and call it even, ok?

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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
To be fair, it's a super awkward kiss. Nose smashing and over-puckered fishface kissy lips are never a good thing.

I say 'eeeew' too.

[identity profile] a-better-thing.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Echoing what others have said - maybe she just doesn't like seeing anyone kissing? Maybe it's the... less-than-conventional attractiveness of the men. Maybe she didn't think it was an appropriate venue. Maybe, just maybe, she has no problem with homosexuality but just doesn't find it a turn-on when men kiss?

There are many reasons she could have said 'ew'. Did you ask, or just silently judge and condemn?

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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
tbh you both sound dumb

[identity profile] radio-nurse.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
It seems you guys have a lot more faith in people than I do, because I really don't think it's unreasonable to assume OP's mother's comment was fueled by homophobia. In my experiences, most openly negative reactions to gay couples showing affection are.

That said, OP, I really hope everyone else is right and your mom isn't homophobic. Or at least doesn't start shaming you for what you find 'hot.'

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[identity profile] xenafox.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
....

I CAN'T EVEN POST AN OPINION HERE, IT'D BE FAR TOO BIASED.

*Cannot possibly ever ever find this gross XD;*

[identity profile] canspy.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
I can't join the wank properly because I can't tell who these guys are! D':

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[identity profile] la-petite-singe.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
:\ That's quite disappointing indeed. Who is that, anyway?

Complete Agreement

[identity profile] unknown20troper.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Many of the other commenters suggested that the 'ew' may have resulted from the guys' physical appearance. I looked at the pic, and you know what, they didn't look that bad or that old. Besides, disgust at love is not a good thing. So yeah... I'm on your side, anon. Finding gays hot is better than looking at them with disgust, I figure, provided that one doesn't steorotype them, solely consider them to be sex objects or be homophobic (apparently, some slash fans are homophobic. I consider that a contradictation of epic proportions).

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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Tbh, I kinda agree.

Rude.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
The fact that it's John C. Reilly and Will Ferrell makes me side with your mom more than you. I wouldn't doubt for a second they were only kissing to be ~funny~ and ~controversial~ and ~hahaha look at ussss!~

[identity profile] resounding-echo.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
My first thought was "cute." :)

[identity profile] ariseishirou.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
Depends, you probably know your mother better than we do. Was it because they were old, or because they were two men?

Because my own mother did the same when she saw two young, attractive lesbians kissing in a parking lot, and I lost all kinds of respect for her that day as well.

[identity profile] expiredramen.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
I hate it when my mom does this too, and I know it's because she's homophobic.

[identity profile] avocado-love.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Dude.

That isn't even a hot kiss.

[identity profile] velvet-mace.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
I hate that it's always a gay couple that gets this ew reaction. Older hetero couples kiss all the time and no one bats an eye. Either they let it go as neutral or they think it's cute that a couple is still in love with each other after all those years.

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(Anonymous) 2011-05-10 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
The fact it's a kiss at all regardless of who's doing it, makes it gross to me. Sorry, siding with your mom. Fucking ew.

[identity profile] robintheshrew.livejournal.com 2011-05-10 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
Look at us, we're too older gentlemen kissing, isn't homosexuality hilarious? In before "I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry"

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THINGS I'VE LEARNED TODAY

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