[ SECRET POST #1667 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1667 ⌋


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Notes:

Posting this while LJ is up. Comment threads to follow

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 099 secrets from Secret Submission Post #238.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ]
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Comments

[frenchonionchef.livejournal.com]

Honestly? I'm with you. I have no idea why people would promote such a lifestyle. The cruel part of me wants to pass it off as overweight people not wanting to see anyone tell them that how they live isn't healthy. The more rational part of me... well, there has to be some other explanation, but hell if I can find it. I just do not understand the enabling thought process behind some of what I've seen. No at all.

[(Anonymous)]

Lets say someone is fat because they're lazy and eat wrong.


Why the hell would that give you the right to insult them or treat them like shit? I don't understand, at what point does someone get large enough that you're free to be an awful person to them with no reprecussions? Like, once they reach a certain widthe you get to butt into their life and health uninvited and make fun of them? How does that make any sense? Why is their health any of your damn business or any call for mocking?

Of course, I 99% of the time when someone says they're concerned for fat peoples health and they're just random strangers on the internet, they just want to use that as an excuse to make fun of the fatties. And I may be off by 1%

[frenchonionchef.livejournal.com]

And I may be off by 1%

Yeah. Those don't sound like numbers made up on the spot. No sir-ee.

And who said I was making fun of them? JFC.

[(Anonymous)]

Considering you're agreeing with the op about not getting fat acceptance, which is about telling people to fuck off and stop tormenting fat people, it would seem you do approve the insulting of fat folks.


Unless of course you're just talking about something you don't know the first thing about. Or both.

[xerxes92.livejournal.com]

Not saying "It's okay to be fat!" =/= being an asshole to fat people.

[(Anonymous)]

+1

[timemachineyeah.livejournal.com]

If you just want to pick up some books about it, The Obesity Myth by Paul Campos is a good start. Big Fat Lies by Glenn Gaesser is also good. See also: Rethinking Thin (Gina Kolata).

For a quick link doing a really basic summary of the science arguments, see
The epidemiology of overweight and obesity: public health crisis or moral panic? ( http://ije.oxfordjournals.org/content/35/1/55.full )

For even more critique, there's this ( http://junkfoodscience.blogspot.com/2008/02/i-think-therefore-i-am-part-three.html ) ( http://kateharding.net/2007/11/27/the-fantasy-of-being-thin/ ) (http://www.amptoons.com/blog/2006/04/03/the-case-against-weight-loss-dieting/ )

And, in case you don't feel like reading a small pile of well referenced links and books - here's the short version.

There is no solid scientifically proven healthy way to permanently lose weight. Not one. 95-98% of all people on ANY weight loss program gain the weight back (plus some! Weight loss dieting causes weight GAIN in the long term!). So even if obesity were causing all the things it claims to cause, there's nothing we could do about it, and making people feel shitty about themselves isn't helping anyone. Dieting with attempts at weight loss have been shown to ~increase~ the likelihood of heart and artery disease in the long run. Having people lose weight (temporarily) in an attempt to prevent heart disease is like having people go tanning in an attempt to prevent skin cancer because white people get skin cancer more often. It makes no sense. Continuing to prescribe this as a solution that could work, when it demonstrably doesn't, is just bad medicine.

That is, of course, if you believe that we are getting exponentially fatter as a society and that being fat equates with being unhealthy. But we aren't getting fatter as a society. We did gain weight between the 1960s and the 1990s, but around the turn of the millennium that gain plateaued (http://jama.ama-assn.org/content/303/3/235.full) - Studies that say it didn't plateau tend to be going by percentage of population that is considered obese, and failing to correct for the 1998 change to the definition of obesity. In 1998 the CDC lowered the minimum BMI for the "obese" category from 32.7 to 30. The number of obese people nearly doubled overnight - but it doesn't reflect a change in population or a rapidly fatter population any more than saying now there's eight planets when there used to be nine reflects any sort of reality about disappearing planets.

[timemachineyeah.livejournal.com]

And being fat or thin isn't a predictor of health until you get into the far extremes - which is what you would expect from and U curve, bell-curved population. People at the far ends of tall and short also have higher mortality - but "overweight" people actually have the longest life expectancy, and people in the category Obese I don't seem to suffer any ill effects and have comparable health to those in the "normal" BMI category. ( http://eurpub.oxfordjournals.org/content/19/6/568.full ), ( http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26143255) (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19543208 ) (OH GOD I HAVE SO MANY MORE REFERENCES FOR THIS IF YOU WANT)

Plus, as far as we can tell, weight is genetic. About as genetic as height, sexual orientation, and dominant handedness. There has been a drift recently, and some of that is probably due to better living circumstances, but there's also been a drift towards taller people (we are an inch or more taller than our grandparents) which no one seems to be nearly as worried about. ( http://children.webmd.com/news/20080211/nature-trumps-nurture-in-child-obesity )

And, finally, if you dig into the origins of the "obesity crisis", the idea stems from American Health Insurance companies, who in the late thirties were looking for "risk factors" as excuses to charge more. They tried all kinds of things: height, skin tone, foot size, even. But the one that people were least likely to complain about was BMI (which it took them several years to settle on and standardize).

In other words, the obesity crisis started as a salable cash grab from insurance companies - and it was salable for two reasons, 1) the people most likely to suffer the consequences of it were the already disenfranchised, because people of color (especially Black and Hispanic) are genetically disposed to higher weights, and 2) it was very fashionable. Coco Chanel and others had established the popularity of being stick thin and because it's always more fun to present the obligatory performance of gender and fashion by women as something besides made-up garbage, the idea of it being about "health" sold to women's magazines like hotcakes.

[jenioctavia.livejournal.com]

Oops! I didn't see this second post before! Also good information, though.

(I agree on the 'not a predictor of health' comment, as well. I'm overweight and have been for the better part of my life, and it was only very recently that it's started effecting my health at all. My overweight step mother is otherwise healthy save for bad knees that were a result of early onset arthritis. Now my overweight mother was sadly on side of 'severely unhealthy from the get-go' but, again, weight =/= instant health issues all the time.)

[timemachineyeah.livejournal.com]

Lol, it's okay. I think we may have been simul-posting there.

My roommate it much bigger than I am, and also much healthier, both herself (she can lift more than I can, run longer than I can, and I'm only ever faster than her because I'm taller) and her diet (she cooks her own food most of the time, and ~loves~ veggies).

I sit around on the couch eating bagel bites all day, and while I'm not thin, most people wouldn't call me fat.

The world isn't as clear cut as people make it out to be.

Thank you for your kind comments. :D

[megu.livejournal.com]

Yeah, except that you can lose weight, it is healthy to eat well and exercise, and you can keep the weight off. I'm sorry I don't care how "researched" any of this is, it's simply wrong.

I'm not saying obese or overweight people can't be healthy, but saying that it's not proven that you can lose weight healthily or keep it off permanently, that's just the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Seriously.

I used to be overweight, lost 22% of my body weight by (gasp) eating healthier and exercising regularly. I've kept it off for almost 2 years, not once gaining back any significant amount of the weight I lost. I feel fucking awesome. Sorry if you feel that's not possible or healthy, sucks for you!

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I thought the statistic that's been cited somewhere in the thread that says that 90-95% of people who lose weight gain it back was ridiculously high. Like, that many people don't have self control or what?

I've lost a lot of weight recently (still doing so) and I'm feeling pretty awesome, especially since I realized that eating and living healthy actually feels good.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, this. Everything I've read from the FA movement itself is not just "people deserve respect regardless of size"; if it were just that, I'd be behind it 100%. Instead, the movement also promotes this ridiculously defeatist attitude "backed up" by pseudoscience (at best, bullshit made-up-on-the-spot statistics at worst). Apparently, accepting that fat people are fat because of their unhealthy lifestyle choices far more often than because of medical issues is a lot harder than simply lying to make themselves feel better.

If you don't want to change your lifestyle and lose weight, fine. You don't have to. Hell, I'm overweight myself because of crappy choices and I don't really care enough to do anything about it. But at least have the guts to be honest about why you're fat instead of pulling "science" out of your ass to cover up that you're lazy and like junk food like everyone else.

[timemachineyeah.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry I don't care how "researched" any of this is,

That's nice. And conveniently gets you out of backing yourself up.

And I didn't say nobody could lose weight, I said it's a statistical anomaly, which it is. That is why every diet program in the world includes this-

*results not typical

Some people can lose weight. Most people can't. That's not lying. It's well researched fact. If you can come up with ONE, just ONE reliable, re-creatable study showing a diet and exercise program that was shown in clinical study to maintain a significant weight loss (meaning around 25% at least with even 50% of its participants maintaining it in the long term (meaning longer than five years) I will mail you my hair.

If they've done all that and are actually still experiencing health benefits (meaning this program isn't actively harmful) than I will sing a song, and might even try it myself.

Oh right, but you don't care about ~research~.

There are limits. To these things. Most people have a set point range. You can be on the high end or low end of your range, but most people do still have a range, they do still have a place where they cannot healthily do more. Admitting that isn't defeatist unless you think you are a failure if you are fat. The point of Fat Acceptance is to let people know they are not, and that being fat shouldn't be something that keeps you from living your life they way you imagine it.

[green-glee.livejournal.com]

"THESE STATISTICS OF YOURS MEAN NOTHING. LET ME COUNTER THEM WITH MY PERSONAL ANECDATA!"

[jenioctavia.livejournal.com]

I was going to say something about this post, too, but honestly I think you summed it up better than anyone has.

Making people feel bad about anything, even something that's "preventable" like weight, doesn't help them or anyone else in the end. In fact you're only making the problem WORSE with that attitude, and its really sad that people can't realize that.

Thank you for putting these facts up here, timemachineyeah. Hopefully some one will actually take the time to think about what you've said and change their mind the next time they see some one overweight, be they a cosplayer or just somebody they know.

The anon above also had a very good point as well.

[megalomaniageek.livejournal.com]

I like you and have linked to this post in my "notes" feature next to your name. Couldn't have said anything better myself and will almost assuredly be linking many people to this because the argument comes up over and over and over and over and over.

[relic-of-asgard.livejournal.com]

While I mostly agree with you, I have to say that my weight is what is killing my knees. :( I'm probably just barely considered obese, but enough that it's hurting. But I don't want to change for anyone but my own health and well being.

[timemachineyeah.livejournal.com]

That's fine. While weight itself very very rarely causes joint problems, it can and does exacerbate them sometimes. It would be silly of me to deny that. There are plenty of health problems that are also exacerbated by being thin. That this is true doesn't mean that those weights are inherently evil things to be, and if people are happy with their weight that's no one else's business.

If you need to try to lose weight for you, and you're making an educated choice, that's good. Sometimes there are good reasons to want to at least try. Sometimes that does work out.

But if it doesn't work out, that's not your fault. It doesn't for most people. And if people try to guilt you or shame you for not being able to keep weight off, fuck 'em. Those people are assholes.

I just don't want people destroying themselves with guilt and shame in the process of giving that slight chance that they might be one of the statistical outliers who can keep the weight off a shot, and I don't want people who are fat and are perfectly healthy feeling like their weight alone is somehow a problem when clearly it's not. Nor do I want people who's health problems aren't actually caused by their weight to go around treating the wrong thing. And, knowing that weight loss is a treatment plan that doesn't last over 90% of the time, I don't want people going into it with the wrong expectations. But if it's worth it to you to try, that's okay.

Do what you gotta do for you.

[(Anonymous)]

Nor do I want people who's health problems aren't actually caused by their weight to go around treating the wrong thing.

As someone with a health problem that causes bizarre weight gain as one of its symptoms, thank you for acknowledging that we exist. I cannot express how shitty it is that people act like my physical appearance gives them a free pass to treat me like shit because clearly I must eat every meal at McD's. I feel shitty enough without people assuming I'm a lazy glutton too.

[eelsalad.livejournal.com]

Well said!

Back when my knees were bad (ie, between puberty and about age 31), my Mom responded to any mention of pain with "lose weight!" Turned out what I really needed was knee surgery, and now my knees are basically fine for the first time in my life. My knees sucked even in my early 20s when I was so skinny you could see my ribs (thanks to a medical problem).

BUT: yes, weight can exacerbate certain knee issues. The trick is getting a doctor who will actually look at them and not look at your weight (my proportions are such that this hasn't been a problem for me, but it has been for other folks I know). There's a great entry on this subject over at Dancess With Fat (http://danceswithfat.wordpress.com/2011/07/18/my-joints-my-fat-and-me/).

[hoshika.livejournal.com]

There is a difference between encouraging someone who wants to be "healthier" (in quotes because healthier does not depend solely on the judgement of what the BMI scale says), and someone ridiculing/judging someone based on their physical appearance.

It's always the latter on the internet. I call them concerned trolls. Just like this secret poster.

What I don't get is why utter strangers feel it's their duty to tell you how "unhealthy" you are, and act like your fucking doctor.

I really doubt these same people care about smokers.

[veronica-rich.livejournal.com]

Look at the bright side. If you're right and we're less healthy than you, we'll die first and you'll inherit the Earth and all its riches. :-)

[sairei.livejournal.com]

+1

[tee-sama.livejournal.com]

Because it's not about promoting anything but treating fellow human beings with respect?