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(Anonymous) 2012-01-25 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)Learning ASL is not fetishizing anything; that's like claiming learning any language is fetishizing cultures. I learned Spanish for shits and giggles and I am glad I did because it is fun and has come in handy! Go for it!
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So, yeah, I'm going to learn ASL as soon as I can, but I didn't realize that was "fetishizing" it, and I think if anyone is actually saying that, they need to learn what fetishizing actually means. :|
I also want to learn German and Swahili- German we have at school, Swahili... I'm not sure. But isn't learning new languages so much fun?
/is weird.
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(Anonymous) 2012-01-26 12:28 am (UTC)(link)Wanting to learn the language is not "fetishizing" it. (But the fangirls who just want to meet a "nice Deaf boy like Emmett" are...but that's a whole other issue.)
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On another note- my sister actually is majoring in ASL after having back problems and not being able to go into dance. She was interested in it since we were kids, as mom had a picture book about sign language for us to read and try to learn a bit. I remember how much she loved flipping through those pages. And then this show came out when she was having back problems, and I think it helped remind her of the love she had for it. (And btw, no one in our family is deaf.)
I think having a passion for something is never bad. Fetishizing is to devoid the subject of its humanity, either by making it to be perfect or picking away pieces that you like and ignoring the rest.
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And signing is useful, I use it all the time, I don't actually have any deaf friends, but I use it on my friends and they get some of it, also I usually spell my name in sign language when I introduce myself...
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(Anonymous) 2012-01-26 01:22 am (UTC)(link)Also, I'm in second year ASL at my school and it's awesome.
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And that's seriously the nicest thing I've been able to say about deaf culture in years.
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(Anonymous) 2012-01-26 02:08 am (UTC)(link)I am so tired of people calling interest in cultures, lifestyles, and what the fuck ever fetishizing. It isn't, and unless you're being super weird in a way that your secret doesn't show, you are not fetishizing deaf culture.
Here, a dictionary definition of fetish for everyone:
Fetish-
1. an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.
2. any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of high grades.
3. Psychology. any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.
Wanting to learn a damn language is not an example of fetishizing a culture unless you intend to assign the culture religious significance, adore it in a freakishly intense way, or develop a sexual fixation that precludes your enjoyment of sexual activity not involving that culture.
TL;DR: You're fine, OP. It's okay to want to learn about other cultures and languages solely because you're interested in them.
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(ugh Daphne LeClerc be my girlfriend wontcha please)
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Another show, if you can find it, that you might be interested in is Sue Thomas, F.B.Eye, which is based on a true story, and I really enjoyed.
And yes, take ASL. It's useful to have, and not nearly enough hearing people learn it, even if you don't go for interpreter certification (which is what I want to do, once I get enough money to go back to college). If you do any sort of customer service-type work with the public, you'll never know when it might be useful, and I've found that most Deaf people tend to be quite grateful to not have to write everything down.
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If you're really serious about studying it, you could develop a really useful skill that is helpful to deaf people who want to attend something requiring a translator (a class, a play, a presentation, etc) and which could pretty much guarantee you a job due to its rarity among the hearing.
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