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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-04-10 06:36 pm

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think it's so bad. I'm really sorry you were in a position where you felt you had no choice but to lie to people in order to receive help, but in the end you did what you had to take care of yourself. And I think a lot of people who donated money for computer parts wouldn't have done so for an abortion, which is really fucking stupid but people are stupid sometimes. Hope you can eventually come clean with any friends involved and that you eventually forgive yourself and are happy and healthy.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
And I think a lot of people who donated money for computer parts wouldn't have done so for an abortion, which is really fucking stupid

Eh, I don't really think it's that stupid of them (and I say this as someone who probably would have been more likely to donate to an abortion fund than a computer fund). Part of the reason some of them probably donated money was because they may have assumed that when her computer part was replaced, then her fan works would come out faster. So they figured they had a stake in it.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmm, I hadn't thought of it like that. So in a way they figured they were paying for fic/etc. I still tend to think humans who would rather donate money to get something out of it rather than to help a friend in a health matter is kind of stupid, but your explanation does add something to the table.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Some of us simply would see that as blood on our hands. Any other health matter, I would be happy to help. But abortion is different for a lot of people and that should be respected, especially if we aren't picketing outside of clinics or shooting doctors. You don't have to attack us for the opinion alone.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
THIS

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Abortion is only a "health matter" if the pregnancy is threatening your life. "Boohoo, I don't wanna be pregnant," is not "I could drop dead if this thing isn't sucked out" nor is it something I feel compelled to contribute to. Do we know that's OP's reasoning? No, but neither did the people who didn't know they were supporting an abortion.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
da

So if some hypothetical woman was raped and got pregnant, but was in no physical danger from the pregnancy, would you say she should keep it?

If a woman wants an abortion, she should be allowed it. Period. End of discussion.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't say she shouldn't be allowed to have it. You jumped to that conclusion all on your own. I'm saying that I'm sick of people justifying abortions by calling them "health matters" when really, they just don't want to be pregnant. Pregnant is not synonymous with unhealthy.

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[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
Pregnancy - even a healthy one - can actually permanently damage your body.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
eat a dick. pregnancy can lead to a lot of insanely dangerous health complications, and yes, even in this day and age, women die in the delivery room.

pregnancy isn't synonymous with unhealthy, but it is a health condition, and if you're worried enough about your health to get an abortion, it's a "health matter".

besides, you self-righteous shit-eating smegma-smeared piece of feces, most women don't get an abortion because they "don't want to be pregnant". it's because they don't want a baby. what part of that is hard for you to fucking understand? if OP couldn't afford an abortion without lying to get donations, why do you think she'd be able to maintain a damn baby? who was going to adopt the kid if she carried it (and took on tens of thousands of dollars in hospital bills)? you? no, i doubt it.

i have literally never met a pro-lifer who adopted, fostered, or even donated to organizations for children who are stuck in the system. sew your own cunt/cock shut and keep your fucking opinions out of other peoples' health concerns.

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[identity profile] marshwiggledyke.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
Abortion is a health matter because having unwanted babies affects your entire life and your health.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Not all the time. Adoption and surrendering your child exists.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
and as fucking usual pro-choicers don't give a fuck about the child once it's born. what a surprise.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
Then don't have full-on penetrative sex with a male? It boggles my mind that anyone that vehemently opposed or poorly prepared for having babies would do so voluntarily.

Yes, I know, non-consensual situations exist and so do genuine unforseseen health emergencies, thus why abortion needs to be a thing. But seriously? If babies are out of the question, crossing one's legs makes so much more sense than relying on birth control that's known to be less than perfect and/or having some horrible surgical procedure to kill the kid after the fact.

I'm sure I'll get slammed for saying so, since it's fashionable these days to assume that the right to do whatever we feel like trumps any responsibility we bear for the consequences, but I'm sorry, it's just a biological fact: no sex, no pregnancy, no abortion, no problem.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
Because no woman ever gets pregnant due to rape, right? That slut just should have kept her knees together.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
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Yeah, this is kind of my point of view on this... I'm avoiding sex with a man because I know I'm not ready for a baby or even a pregnancy. It's not because I'm repressed or a prude (well, maybe a bit of a prude, but not that much), it's because the consequences are not worth it.

If people want to have sex, that's their choice, but they need to be able to deal with the consequences. Expecting to have consequence free sex is irresponsible at best and delusional and over-entitled at worse.

It's like having a pet: great for you if you have a pet, but you need to have some emergency funds set aside for it. If not, it's your right to have a pet and I'm not taking that away from you, but you shouldn't.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
so women can only have good victim abortions not slut abortions, I see

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
I would honestly kill myself before giving birth to a child. And if I was forced to give birth? I would probably try to kill that baby, and then kill myself. "I could drop dead if this thing isn't sucked out" is true for me.

Just my two cents.

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[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
If I couldn't get an abortion, I'd try to self-abort of die trying.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-11 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Then you're in serious need of professional help, Anon. That's just fucked up.

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[identity profile] amethyst-rei.livejournal.com 2012-04-11 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
And if I was forced to give birth? I would probably try to kill that baby, and then kill myself.

That's fucking MURDER. You already fucking had the kid, give it up to adoption, you idiot.

And anyone who fucking agrees is insane and in serious need of professional help. Aborting a fetus is one thing, KILLING A BABY POSTPARTUM IS ENTIRELY FUCKING DIFFERENT.


/ends rant.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
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And I think a lot of people who donated money for computer parts wouldn't have done so for an abortion

That's what makes it heinous. If they wouldn't have donated money for an abortion because it is against their personal beliefs or because they just weren't comfortable with it, they shouldn't have been deceived into providing money under false pretenses.

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-10 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I think "heinous" is a bit strong.

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