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[ SECRET POST #3172 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3172 ⌋
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[Doctor Who]
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-10 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)If you intend to name your son Connor, get an abortion.
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-10 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)So you're saying that because you've had bad experiences with a certain name, people with that name will always be bad and shouldn't be born. That's...what the fuck
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-10 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)When management shows appreciation, he always dismisses it as insincere.
When asked what he'd like management to do, he doesn't know, but he expects them to come up with something.
He is the most high-maint, entitled, easily offended person I know who takes everything personally.
He is, of course, an artist.
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-10 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)I'm worried I was being sexist, because if it had been an eighteen year old girl, I probably wouldn't have been nervous, even though an eighteen year girl old could've ended up mugging me. WAS it sexist? Or just cautious?
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(Anonymous) - 2015-09-10 23:42 (UTC) - Expand^ Misfire, sorry
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-10 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)Business changes hands. I'm no longer affiliated with it in any way, via friend of a friend or any such relationship. Happily gone my own way, no regrets about contributing to the cause, although I have concerns about the direction the business is going from this point on.
Lo and behold, a new business is started (by whom, I'm not completely sure), and what should be the "face" of the business, but one of my photos? It's also a good cause. I would be happy to contribute to it, had I been asked to. Except for some reason it just pisses me off every time I see it. Gah.
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Also, I have to go to a birthday party for my aunt on Sunday that no one mentioned until today. :< I was going to go see Mission Impossible.
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-10 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)I just talked to a cousin after a fight with their friend. Sometime ago that friend had confided in her something that people used to call her. Sometime later the cousin repeated it as part of a joke. The friend got upset, and later asked my cousin not to say that around her because it has a painful history. My cousin got furious about this , that her friend was telling her what not to say and they had their fight.
I tried explaining to her the friend's position that sometimes you shouldn't say things around people because it hurts them. But I can't seem to get past "but she can't tell me not to say that its not fair!".
It's horribly frustrating, this abuse of free speech and caring more about "but its MY right to say that ME ME ME ME" instead of other people.
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-11 12:12 am (UTC)(link)I mean I could ask a friend who writes him pretty well for advice, but I'd be asking for several little things instead of just showing her my silly for fun only fic ideas.
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WHY ARE YOU FOLLOWING ME?! It's weird... XD
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It's causing lots of communication issues, and my doctor keeps telling me to leave messages with them for her or email things to the admin account so they can forward them to her, and it just doesn't get done. I'm pretty sure based on how little is getting through that she's told the other members of staff to pretty much ignore me.
This sucks because my doctor is great most of the time about getting back to me, even when she's busy. I don't want to change doctors again because of this.
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-11 01:20 am (UTC)(link)My girlfriend is asexual, I am not. We have sex, but she isn't sexually attracted to me. Sometimes I am totally okay with that. Sometimes, since I have depression and pretty much no self esteem, I'm not. I don't consider this to be her fault but rather mine, something I need to work on since we have a fine sex life and everything. (And it has been less of an issue as time has gone on!) I told her this about a month ago, and I thought I made it clear that I didn't want her to change or anything, just maybe be patient with me, and at the time she said it was fine, but the other night it came out that no it wasn't and it really hurt her, but she hadn't wanted to let on cause I've been having a hard time recently. I feel like a total asshole for not realizing it hurt her the way it did, and like I shouldn't have told her at all and just kept working on it in private.
She also told me sometimes she thinks she pushed herself into having sex with me sooner than she was comfortable with and kind of regrets that, and hearing that has really messed me up. I was being very conscious of not pressuring her (and she still says it wasn't me it was just a societal thing), and now I feel like a terrible girlfriend. I'm really mad at myself and have been upset at myself for days, but I haven't told her because I know she will blame herself for upsetting me. I apologized and she says she doesn't blame me, but I just feel like I messed up and she deserves better, someone who is 100 percent comfortable with her sexuality.
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eta: I got another one, when people ignore all the tagged warnings just to point out that the story I'm reading is fucked up and twisted like a little child going "LOOK AT THAT LOOK AT THAT FUCKED UP RELATIONSHIP LOOK AT HOW UNHEALTHY IT IS!". Like yes, thank you for pointing that out, I'm aware it's unhealthy and horrible now go away so I can read about it. Some of us like reading about fucked up and twisted relationships and can differentiate between fantasy and reality.
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The budget amount is now greater than the amount of the actual bill.
WTF.
*Until now, because lol guys, no.
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(Anonymous) 2015-09-11 03:19 am (UTC)(link)This vent brought to you by this fairly nice article, and the dozens of complete assholes directly below it. http://millihelen.jezebel.com/i-fuck-fat-people-1729648745
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