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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-05-20 05:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3425 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3425 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Final Fantasy VII/Super Smash Bros]


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[The Girls Next Door, Bridget Marquardt, Holly Madison, Kendra Wilkinson]


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[Pokémon Sun and Moon]


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[Love and Lies]


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[Aoishiro]


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[The Hunger Games]


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09. [SPOILERS for Houdini and Doyle]




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10. [SPOILERS for Pokemon SM]




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11. [SPOILERS for The Witcher/Dragon Age]




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12. [SPOILERS for Cupid]
[WARNING for rape, incest]




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13. [WARNING for discussion of rape]


["Blurred Lines", Robin Thicke]





























Notes:

Really early because I've got stuff to do, sorry about that.

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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)
If you can't find something erotic without ambiguous consent, there is something seriously wrong with you.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)
If you judge other women for their kinks, there is something seriously wrong with you.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope, sorry. Some kinks need to be fucking shamed.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Stop playing thought police. People are going to enjoy their kinks no matter how many hissy fits you throw.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
You put your shitty kinks out there, you should be prepared to get shamed. Don't wanna be shamed? Keep your sicko fantasies to yourself.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
And meanwhile while you hiss on people are still having fun regardless of what you want. You and your fragile feelings are not half as important as you believe them to be. Deal with it.

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-05-20 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Now I know you're trolling.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-21 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Um no, sorry. I will judge people for their disgusting "kinks" all day long. There's some sick asshole in my current fandom who gets off on extremely underage non-con. She writes fics where a character as old as 45 is raping a 6/7 year old child and she GETS OFF ON THAT.

That makes you a sick fuck, I don't care who you are. That's not a fucking "kink", that's a pedophile making excuses for themselves by screaming, "Don't kinkshame me!!1!" Fuck that.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-21 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
+1. Holy shit that's skeevy.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-22 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you!
I recently came across a fic, in which the pairing was Frostiron. It turned out that Loki was twelve! And the writer's problem was with a 'troll' in her comments (she wrote that she had deliberately reposted the fic because of said troll).

YKINMK and all that but there needs to be at least some acknowledgement that some kinks are just not acceptable.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-05-20 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Only I never interpreted it as dubious consent, but as provoking infidelity (until people started wanking about it). and people are allowed to find that gross, too, but multiple interpretations of texts are a thing.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
There's nothing to even suggest infidelity in the lyrics, though. It's all "I know you want it no matter what you say" bullshit.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-05-20 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
This entire thing:

Ok, now he was close
Tried to domesticate you
But you're an animal
Baby, it's in your nature
Just let me liberate you
You don't need no papers
That man is not your maker


Is basically him trying to get her away from another guy to me.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
That's...really reaching. Sorry.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-05-20 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
That's not reaching, that literally how I understood it like the first 15 time I heard it until people started freaking out about it.

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I got that too, tbh. I never got that rape-vibe from it, until the internet felt the need to educate me. I always thought it was suposed to encourage me to be less of a "good girl" and loosen up a little, in a playful way.

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not reaching at all? Infidelity is actually a very valid reading of those lines.

Personally, I also find the song very rapey, but to say an infidelity interpretation is "reaching" is totally baffling to me.

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-21 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Mte. I don't see anything rapey about it, but encouraging cheating? Yes.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-21 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
Please kill yourself.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-21 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
no u

(Anonymous) 2016-05-21 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not the rape apologist, so no.

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-05-21 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly. And there's even a paragraph later on that has "the way you grab me", o yeah, she's not an unwilling bystander.

To me it was always a song about a woman who is attracted to him, but is holding off cause she's involved with someone else, and he's encouraging her to cheat. But ymmv.

(Anonymous) 2016-05-21 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
"She was totally asking for it, man!"

Goddamn, meran_flash was right about you. You're disgusting.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-05-21 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Because, you know, wearing a cleavage is totally the same as actually initiating sexual contact?

And man, that wank is OLD. I didn't even remember the name until now.

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(Anonymous) 2016-05-21 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

I always read "the way you grab me/must wanna get nasty" as her "grabbing" his attention. So the assumption that all hot women he's sexually attracted too are "nasty" and secretly welcoming his attention was really skeevy. I assumed this because the rest of the lyrics seem to imply she's acting like a "good girl".

So that was my first interpretation, but apparently other people see it the exact opposite, where "the way you grab me" is his interest being returned.

I honestly never cared that much and the infidelity interpretation makes sense as well (even if I think the song is gross anyway) but apparently we're talking about this song again and I'm still confused about this.

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