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[ SECRET POST #4417 ]
⌈ Secret Post #4417 ⌋
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Re: Secrets you're too lazy to make
(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:30 am (UTC)(link)*the girl from photo of the awkward hug posted this: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DyyH2L9X4AA9qiA.jpg
Re: Secrets you're too lazy to make
(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:36 am (UTC)(link)Because, first, is "undeniable evidence" actually the kind of standard that we should be demanding here? I don't think that it is - we're not a court of law, we're human beings. Coming to conclusions based on imperfect evidence is a fundamental part of being human. And "undeniable evidence" is not really a standard that we demand in most parts of life. So it seems to me that we can draw reasonable conclusions about things even if we're not 100% certain and the evidence isn't undeniable. That's kind of what we do all the time.
Second, is "mob justice" actually what's going on here? I mean, what actual consequences are there and what is being done to this person? If someone is getting yelled at, or loses some jobs and has to stay out of the public eye, is it fair to call that "mob justice"? And is it actually an unfair consequence?
And, like, there's no easy answers to those questions, but demanding 'undeniable evidence' and talking about 'mob justice' is drawing conclusions in advance.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:39 am (UTC)(link)Yes, unless you want the internet mob justice to kill MORE people.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:42 am (UTC)(link)WE DID IT REDDIT!
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:42 am (UTC)(link)Sorry, but nani the fuck?
From above
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:46 am (UTC)(link)But it seems like a case of bad boundaries and misunderstanding about what's okay to do to a stranger. I believe the biggest issue brought forth is him kissing girls' cheeks as an intended non-sexual (probably) gesture of endearment without asking consent. To be clear, there's a huge issue with Vic, a 50-someting year old man, being a bit too friendly with teenage girls. It isn't okay, but it's not crazy to think he had no idea it was inappropriate, since kissing cheeks - along with hugs and such - are so variable to culture and upbringing.
I don't mind him earning his reputation as a skeev and a perv who thinks he's some kind of rockstar celebrity among otaku crowds. But it doesn't seem like there's any evidence he's some kind of sex offender or committed any crime, nor anything that could be reasonably considered assault against anyone. So the mob justice is a little uncomfortable to me, too.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:50 am (UTC)(link)cos he's a ✧・゚:*Christian*:・゚✧
[not that i'm saying all christians are like that, just that's his excuse]
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:56 am (UTC)(link)I really hate that condescending crap. Unless Vic supports gay marriage and LGBT equality and has no problem voicing gay roles (history suggests he does) then he can fuck off with his Christian "love the sinner" bullshit.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:54 am (UTC)(link)He's given his phone number to below 18 girls.
This man is nearly 60.
The Risembool Rangers club? Requires personal information like real name, address and phone number.
I'm sorry but that's fucking red flags all over.
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And other than the general "Innocent until proven guilty" ideal I tend to stick to, I couldn't give half a fart about this.
But I do have to say, watching the people reacting to your comment is very... reassuring to me. It's not that I wish this on you or anything, but it is good to know that so many people do this whole "I WILL TAKE THE WORST INTERPRETATION OF WHAT YOU SAID AND USE THAT AGAINST YOU" bad faith bullshit to others.
Without seeing the odd thread like this a guy could come to take that kind of thing personally.
Re: Secrets you're too lazy to make
(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 09:09 am (UTC)(link)But all of the arguing is in one subthread that's specifically about whether or not it's OK for him to be fired.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)Fuck off and suck a cactus, Wako, you stopped being cute a long time ago and I'm fucking sick of your selfish, grimy, "weh da femineests are after meeeee" attitude.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 12:56 am (UTC)(link)He's a 50+ year old man, nearly 60. He should know better than to give his phone number to teenaged girls. This isn't mob justice. He's been doing this for over ten years, he's an asshole to other VAs and con staffers, and there's at least one photo I've seen where he obviously had his hand up a teen girl's shirt.
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 03:03 am (UTC)(link)https://twitter.com/shibonsen/status/1087352921015111680
I remember seeing this on the forums in question. Guy took a teenaged girl to his room. That's pretty darn gross. And it wasn't a one-time thing where he was doing really weird stuff.
https://twitter.com/EXTERMINAT1ON/status/1086025969427714049
Another account of having underage girls in his hotel room overnight.
https://twitter.com/ellkehm/status/1091315986534490112
He called a 14-year-old girl for her birthday. Why does he need a child's phone number?
https://twitter.com/thehomedood/status/1091463730003623936
More con staff talking about him flirting with underage girls
https://twitter.com/Syri_blazefury/status/1090821217895022592
Even more con staff:
https://twitter.com/JoeKenner/status/1091418327539466240
This entire first-hand account
https://twitter.com/lightheartcos/status/1091587645212368897
Even more con staff:
https://twitter.com/lady_goggles/status/1092897706647920648
I'm looking for the photo in question they mentioned but haven't found it yet. But a lot of first-hand experiences are... Eventually, they add up, you know?
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 01:42 am (UTC)(link)https://nypost.com/2018/08/05/weve-got-to-stop-letting-outrage-mobs-get-people-fired/
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(Anonymous) 2019-02-08 01:44 am (UTC)(link)like any other tool, it depends on how it's used
and I'd like to see what anyone's suggestion for an alternative way forward is
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