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As a more or less chronic overachiever, I know how much of a disappointment such a thing can be. I'm sorry. I hope it doesn't have any major practical consequences for you in the long term.
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Maybe some day I'll read in the paper that he's fuckin' dead and I'll go back and finish my minor.
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Also my other friend has been ignoring me in favour of her new boyfriend which I wouldn't mind so much if she'd actually say something like 'Will talk later, have a date tonight' instead of ignoring me for days, especially since the last few times she picked up her phone to talk to me since have been to rant about crap.
*grumble grumble moan*
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)Anyway, after holding my silence for many years and just pretending everything was fine regardless of how she behaved, a few months ago she hurt me badly with her actions (long, complicated, involving me being in hospital). This time I couldn't sit on it, so I messaged her and calmly explained I was upset and why.
I haven't heard from her since. I don't expect to unless I apologise and retract my statement.
So now I have to choose between cutting my sister out of my life or being her doormat for the rest of my life. It's cutting me up in ways I can't describe. God help me, I love her any way and just want her to talk to me about why she shuts me down like this.
It hurts, but this isn't a problem.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)Dragon Age is my stress relief, sort of ironic that now it's my problem.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)I'm a fucking adult, but I really wish I could get a hug from my Mom right now. This sleep deprivation is not good for my sanity.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)I blew off a social event tonight because I had a lot of reading to do for class tomorrow. Instead of doing it like I planned, I fucked about on the internet for four hours. Doing nothing, nothing worth mentioning, just refreshing stupid websites over and over again and reading/watching things I don't care about.
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Period
Two weeks later: another period
3weeks later: period
2weeks later: period
3 weeks: period
So on and so forth sigh
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)When I show that I'm exasperated with her she tells me "don't you 'groan' at me."
We eventually worked it out when I finally got a chance to explain, but it bothers me that she does this. I've been in the fandom for this show longer than she has. But I feel like if I tell an admin about it, she'll spin it as "[name} just can't take critique"
Bonus: One time I critiqued her playing was literally when she started the conversation. and it ended in her getting testy. I mean she apologized later, but still.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-09 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)I want to RP, too, but that definitely seems like it's not happening.
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Also my family doctor is retiring - I never had another one, this one knew me since birth, and i really hate the idea of getting a new one I might not like.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-10 01:01 am (UTC)(link)I just don't like doing anything and the college I go to (again, I'm poor) doesn't have a wide variety of degrees it offers, so I'm pretty much stuck with this major I hate in a field that I don't understand or have the patience for. Even worse, my family is expecting a lot from me because I'm the first in my family to go to college and I can't disappoint them by saying "Nah this isn't my thing, sorry."
And on top of that, I'm horrible at handling stress so I've been getting little sleep and I've been more irritable than usual. I don't like this, but I just have to suck it up and deal with it.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-10 03:25 am (UTC)(link)I'm not interested or passionate about anything anymore. I feel like I lack direction or purpose and the only thing I'm good at right now is laying curled up in bed staring at the wall. Or crying. I've been doing a lot of crying.
At this point, I have no idea what's wrong with me. I just want it to stop. Or for everything else to stop so that I can find the urge to move again.
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(Anonymous) 2015-02-10 03:40 am (UTC)(link)*puts head down*
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