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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-12 07:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3327 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3327 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Leonard Snart/Ray Palmer, DC's Legends of Tomorrow]


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05. [SPOILERS for Downton Abbey]





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06.[WARNING for suicide]



[Mare Internum]


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07. [WARNING for sexual assault]



[Love Live - sorry anon who wanted it Saturday, trying to keep the warning ones on Friday]


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08. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]





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09. [WARNING for rape/dub-con, child abuse]





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11. [WARNING for underage sex]






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12. [WARNING for sexual abuse, child abuse]




























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #475.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[personal profile] fscom 2016-02-13 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
11. [WARNING for underage sex]
http://i.imgur.com/rVXjAik.jpg

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
I hate to break it to you, but this place isn't much better.
A few weeks ago right when Bowie had passed away, I saw sooooo many people here defend him in the same way and paint anybody who had a promblem with it as a crazy emotional sjw.
:/

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
the person who brought it up was deliberately trying to hurt people in their grief. they were a garbage person. don't defend them, you piece of shit.

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
I think the problem there just might have had something to do with 'right when Bowie passed away'. Grief makes people irrational and defensive, who knew?
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[personal profile] feotakahari 2016-02-13 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
That was one of the few times FS left me at a loss for words. One of them actually said they wished they were lucky enough to be raped.

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nonnymouscawitz: Embracing my role as FandomSecret's resident Swiftie. (Default)

[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-02-13 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
IDK, I was in that thread and I think for me, a lot of it was me reacting defensively because that person was purposefully trying to shit all over people trying to mourn Bowie, and that's not OK. I can't stress enough that I don't ACTUALLY think that adult men have any business sleeping with 15 year old girls. But there was a lot going on in that thread and I think a lot of was mostly anger because people were trying to be upset at the loss of an icon (Which he was, things he did that were Not Good do not erase all the things that were), and they were being attacked for it.

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
She should've seduced Bowie in Canada--our age of consent was 14 until 2008, when it was raised to 16.

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[personal profile] philstar22 2016-02-13 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with this. If you like him in spite of it, fine. But don't claim it is okay. This makes me as mad as defenders of Chris Brown or Polanski or Woody Allen.

[personal profile] sachiko_san 2016-02-13 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
Oh man, I just skimmed your comment earlier but now that I took the time to read it... Bowie did not know the age of the girl he slept with, she had a fake ID, she pursued him, it was a one time thing and the girl treasures the experience. You cannot question her experience with him when she not only actively pursued and acted on it, but also enjoyed it.

I don't know what Chris Brown did (but fuck him, he's a piece of shit anyway for what he did to Rihanna), but Polanski knew that girl he raped was underage, and then there's the whole part about it being rape even without calling the girl's age in to question, and Woody Allen also went after a minor and raped her too. None of the situations I described were anything like the situation with Bowie.

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
Oh ffs, not this wank AGAIN.

[personal profile] sachiko_san 2016-02-13 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Because David Bowie was somehow supposed to know a groupie he slept with was underage despite her fake ID, let's also ignore the fact that the groupie pursued and enjoyed the experience.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
If anything SHE raped HIM by not disclosing her true age! Because rape by deception is a thing, right?

/tumblr logic

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nonnymouscawitz: Embracing my role as FandomSecret's resident Swiftie. (Default)

[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-02-13 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
Was there ever confirmation that she was using a fake ID? I remember looking for it when that argument was going around and I was hoping someone had a source (Since I do think that changes things considerably), because I didn't see it in the article (Although I was also a bit shaken that day so I might have missed it).

The second half of that statement is also why I am uncomfortable with the whole situation. I think the age of consent is 16-18 for a reason, and I'm not at all in favor of lowering it, but as an adult, she looks back on this experience and is THRILLED and while I would be pissed if it was my kid, I am massively uncomfortable with telling a grown woman 'no you just don't understand your own experience and I get to define it for you.'

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
God, this.
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[personal profile] rbhudson 2016-02-13 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
Denying it, yes, I've seen that a lot

But defending it? I'm truly thankful I haven't come across that *gags*
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[personal profile] otakugal15 2016-02-13 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Good. They don't need you white knoghting for a woman who doesn't see the experience in any sort of bad light.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 09:00 am (UTC)(link)
The fact that she doesn't see rape as bad is exactly why we are needed.

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
7/10 trolling. points deducted for tired old wank. please seek new material.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not going to defend anything Bowie did in his drugged-up days.

For me, there's young David Jones, then great big hole of stupid, then sobered-up David, then Mr Iman.

You can have affection for an artist while understanding that he was a chaotic mess for years.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly this, thank you.
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[personal profile] caerbannog 2016-02-13 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
Don't worry anon, I would unfollow too.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
You know, this is so interesting given what was it, about a week ago we had an anon in General Discussion talking about how she had to convince her mother that what she went through as a young woman was rape, and everyone pointed out that it wasn't her business.

The young woman in question in this secret is now a grown-ass adult. She says it wasn't rape. Here. Now. In the present day. She is not some little girl who has been scared into staying silent until now. She wanted her first experience to be with Bowie, and she was satisfied with it.

Why are you okay with insisting something bad happened to her, when in her opinion, it wasn't?

Just a little food for thought.
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[personal profile] scrubber 2016-02-13 05:41 am (UTC)(link)
"This one specific group of people that you probably weren't apart of says A, but you are suggesting something here that vaguely contradicts that... make u think?"

Slam dunk argument sport. You really showed the OP what's what.

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
I'm only going to say this once, so y'all better listen.

YOU DON'T. GET TO DECIDE. THAT SOMEONE HAS BEEN "RAPED." WHEN THEY EXPLICITLY SAY THEY DO NOT AND HAVE NEVER SEEN IT THAT WAY. Not to mention enjoyed the hell out of it and would do it again.

The end. Now shut the fuck up and stop acting like you care so much about the ~~victims~~ when all you actually care about is slamming a popular white dude so you look cool to your SJW friends.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-13 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
And I unfollow people who insist he has raped an underage girl when there is so much to say for the fact that he didn't. Like for instance, what the girl herself says.