[ SECRET POST #4362 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4362 ⌋

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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General comments:

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What is something someone recommended to you,

[(Anonymous)]

That was even better than you thought it would be.

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[philstar22]

Doctor Who.

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[kaijinscendre]

Breaking Bad and Game of Thrones. Bioshock.

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[(Anonymous)]

Die Hard

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[(Anonymous)]

The Wire

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[greghousesgf]

CSI

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[nightscale]

The Expanse.

I wasn't sure if I'd like it since it wasn't actiony sc-fi, but my dad suggested I give it a go(because he wanted someone to talk to about it :P) and I ended up loving it. I love the characters, the story is interesting to me and I just generally think it's a lot of fun.

And Killing Eve.

A fandom friend recommended it to me a few months back and I'd been getting through my backlog of TV before starting it, I'm 4 episodes in and I love it. Villanelle is great, Eve is fucking wonderfully messy and I'm enjoying the premise of it a lot, and I don't tend to enjoy more 'ordinary' shows, but this is a type of thriller that absolutely works for me.

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[(Anonymous)]

Better Call Saul

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[rosehiptea]

Zootopia. Silent Hill 2 (the game).

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[(Anonymous)]

Banana Fish

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[(Anonymous)]

Leverage, Kim Possible, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Steven Universe

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[(Anonymous)]

Special Topics in Calamity Physics by Marisha Pessl. My friend didn't even like it that much, but she said she thought I'd like it. It's a long book, so it took me a couple of years to get around to reading it, but I ended up loving it. Sadly, by the time I read it, she and I were no longer friends. :/

Re: What is something someone recommended to you,

[(Anonymous)]

Pose

Based on 4

[(Anonymous)]

What are some tropes you love but only in very specific ways?

What changed for you in 2018?

[(Anonymous)]

????

See any good movies lately?

[(Anonymous)]

Tell us all about them!

Pokemon Go PvP

[(Anonymous)]

I friended a bunch of you guys awhile back and since we've been diligently building friendship over the past months, I was wondering if anyone was interested in the new PvP system :)

[fscom]

Games thread!

Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

If you ask your friend for dating help several times, and she only tries to set you up with physically unattractive men (who don't want you either), can you safely draw the conclusion that you are ugly? :(

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

Have you been honest with your friend about your physical preferences re: men? Can you ask her (calmly, NOT defensively or confrontationally) what about the candidates she thought would be a good fit for you? The feedback might help you both.

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

What do you consider physically unattractive? Have you told your friend “I like guys with physical traits x, y, and z and am grossed out by traits 1, 2, and 3?”

Maybe all the attractive (to you) guys your friend knows are in relationships already, or maybe, if you haven’t told her your preferences, she’s using her own and thinks they’re hot. Maybe personality is more important than looks to her, and she’s bad at judging how physically attractive they are but thinks they’re awesome people.

Also, if the men she’s setting you up with don’t want you because you’re not a swimsuit model, not many people are swimsuit models, and also they’ve got professional trainers and makeup and hair teams and photoshop editors, so those men may always be disappointed because magazine covers=/=real life. If the men you’re attracted to are Calvin Klein underwear models or Hollywood heartthrobs, not many people are Calvin Klein models or heartthrobs, and they also have professional teams to make them look good.

Also I’m an ugly woman who’s attracted to guys who are better looking than me, so I just get on with living my life single. It’s no one’s fault they’re not attracted to me, any more than it’s my fault for being attracted to fairly conventionally attractive men. And If you’re wondering if you’re ugly, I bet you’re not. If you’re ugly, people will let you know loudly, often, and unprompted except by your existence that you disgust them, not just turn down a second date. Those guys probably just picked up that you weren’t attracted to them.

Re: Advice.

[(Anonymous)]

I've been conned into a double date by a friend. Her reasoning was that he was a friend of her boyfriend and if she could get us to date then they'd have another couple they both like to hang out with. Friends aren't the best judge of what you're looking for. Cool guy, but very much not for me. He was her type - big, muscular, not much going on upstairs. I like people I can really talk to, so he didn't appeal to me at all. Attraction is a very personal thing.

If you want to date, you should sign up for bumble or something that gives you the option to talk to people you think you'd like. Approach it without an attitude. You won't be interested in everyone, and not everyone will be interested in you either and that's how it is for all of us. Sometimes conversations won't go anywhere, but it's good to start them anyway and build up your confidence.

I think it's important not to cheat yourself out of finding someone by excluding everyone you're not instantly wildly attracted to. If you've not had many relationships I think it's easy to build up the idea in your head that you'll just know the right person immediately and you should wait for that feeling. Attraction isn't a yes or no question. It develops. It grows. Sometimes you find out they have a terrible personality and it dies completely. Ask your friends in good relationships if the person they're with is exactly what they would say their type was before they started dating. Plenty will say no, or that their first date was mediocre, or that they didn't like their boyfriend's beard. All of us have a weird toenail or a stupid laugh or something that would be considered unattractive by most people. Even the seriously good looking ones. You get past that stuff by finding someone who makes you think even their weird parts are good.