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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-07-25 06:34 pm

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[personal profile] fscom 2019-07-25 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
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Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Not interested in telling people they're not really straight or w/e, but I am interested in where and how people draw the line

Re: Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
No, because I think near everyone can identify traits that are generally attractive even in people they're not personally attracted to.

Re: Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
For all practical intents and purposes, yes

for impractical intents and purposes, who cares?
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Re: Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

[personal profile] greghousesgf 2019-07-25 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I am, not that it matters.

Re: Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
yes. I am. I have exactly zero interest in boobs and vaginas and that's after a very long life of examining myself and trying real hard to see the appeal. you can tell me a woman I walk past on the street or see in the media is pretty or attractive or sexually appealing and my response is "...if you say so?"

I think most people are not 100% on either end of the spectrum and it's more typical to be a little bi than it is to be exclusively het or homo but that doesn't say the ends of the spectrum don't exist.

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Re: Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's rare. I think most people are somewhere in the 98% between totally gay and totally straight.
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[personal profile] kribban 2019-07-25 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes.

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(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I think so.

For those who don't think so, do you think anyone is 100% homosexual?

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(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I think most everyone has That One Person they would bang that's outside of their self-defined sexuality. Mind, that's MOST everyone. There's always going to be a few people who are sooooo far at the ends of the sexuality spectrum that it'd be impossible.

Re: Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, of course.

And I am heteroflexible.

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(Anonymous) 2019-07-26 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Functionally, yeah. I don't count the occasional fantasy or jilling off to hot porn/erotica as really bisexuality.

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(Anonymous) 2019-07-26 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
It's impossible to say no because I don't know what goes on in everyone's head! Still, I think the number of people who could be 100% straight or gay, really truly, is so small as to be statistically insignificant. Personally, I don't believe there is a hard line between sexual attraction and non-sexual attraction (non-sexual attraction is definitely a thing and it's possible to know when your attraction is sexual or not). Here is this gray middle area of attraction where it's not clearly sexual or not, but some people tend to ascribe these feelings to weak sexual attraction and some to non-sexual attraction.

I also think there are varying intensities of sexual attraction and it;s possible to feel a spark of something that can only be described as sexual but have absolutely no interest in actually doing anything sexual with that person.

So in that sense, I believe almost no one is 100% straight or gay. As far as actually wanting to do sexual things... then lots of people are 100% straight or gay.
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[personal profile] nightscale 2019-07-26 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
Yup, I'm bi but I don't doubt for a second that some people just have no gay-leanings at all.

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(Anonymous) 2019-07-26 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
I think there are people who are extremely unlikely to encounter a scenario in which they would be sexually attracted to someone of their gender. So unlikely that you may as well say they're 100% straight, even if a scenario does exist in which they could theoretically be attracted to someone of their gender.

As others have already said, there's "100% straight" for all practical purposes, and then there's "100% straight" as some kind of universal constant - a state of straightness so absolute that there aren't even any theoretical exceptions to it. I absolutely believe some people are the former kind of straight. I don't know whether anyone is the latter kind of straight, and I don't care.

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(Anonymous) 2019-07-26 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
I think a part of many people's sexuality is determined by societal biases and conditioning. I think in a world where homosexuality was completely normalized - as in, we didn't even label it because lots of people were openly sexual with their same gender - then a lot of people who are "straight" in our world might be more flexible. Likewise - I say this as a gay person - without that societal baggage, some of us Kinsey 6's might also be more flexible.

I also think that in certain special situations, most people could be attracted to someone they aren't usually attracted to, including in terms of gender.

Are there people who are definitely only one way or the other? Probably. It's sort of an impossible experiment to conduct, so for the time being, we have to resort to letting people describe their identity in the way that feels best for them. :)

Re: Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-26 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Do you think people are 100% Homosexual? Because I don't. ;)
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[personal profile] philstar22 2019-07-26 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. I think it is a lot smaller range of people than many would like to think. But I think 100% hetero people do exist. And in general, I think the safest thing to do is to let people define their own sexuality for themselves. As long as they aren't hurting anyone else, who cares?

Re: Do you think anyone is 100% heterosexual?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-26 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
Probably, like there's a chance. I don't see why not.

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(Anonymous) 2019-07-26 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
I draw the line at habitual attraction over time. No, I don't think that a drunken swing or a boarding school circle jerk necessarily makes one bi, and in the other hand, gay and lesbian people with ex spouses outnumber gold star folk for people older than me.

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What are you eating?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
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Characters you didn't want to find attractive?

(Anonymous) 2019-07-25 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
What are yours?

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Trends in shipping?

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Has anyone who has been in fandom for a long time, noticed trends in shipping, specifically in how characters are portrayed, relationship or sex dynamics in couples being shipped, certain kinks being popular, etc.

I'm not so much interested in "what pairings are most popular in a particular fandom" unless it relates to certain character dynamics becoming more or less popular. More like how the ships are portrayed.

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Vent thread

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Share your gripes!

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Random Question

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What's your favorite TV show opening theme from the last 15 years?

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Elementary

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