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[ SECRET POST #4897 ]

⌈ Secret Post #4897 ⌋

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[the promised neverland]

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[ojamajo doremi]

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[fushigi yuugi]

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Leftover combo fried rice, and I'm going to fry an egg to go on top.

Re: What's for dinner tonight, FS?

(Anonymous) - 2020-06-02 23:12 (UTC) - Expand

Dahl.

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(Anonymous) - 2020-06-03 00:38 (UTC) - Expand

gonna try and make some braised chicken thighs hopefully

Zatarain's Jambalaya mix.

Fettuccini alfredo and a salad mostly foraged from my garden.

Popeyes because I'm lazy and didn't want to cook.

A bowl of southwestern seasoned rice and beans with cheese and fresh avocado. And a beer.

Goulash

I'm not particularly hungry and might just skip dinner, but if I do eat, it will be some leftover chicken burrito dip (https://www.the-girl-who-ate-everything.com/chicken-burrito-dip/).

Ginger cake, made in a bread machine

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Leftovers. Meatloaf, potato casarole, green beans, and sauerkraut.

chicken parm and garlic bread

Tossed a bunch of diced veggies (bell pepper, squash, cucumber, and onion) and fake meat (quorn brand) in a pan with plant butter, salt, pepper, ginger, and paprika. Then I topped it off with fortified nutritional yeast.

Pasteles, rosemary french fries, and salad. Mango Ice cream I made last night for dessert!

Pasteles are a Puerto Rican meal -- seasoned mashed up plantains (and sometimes root vegetables) filled with seasoned pork (or chicken) wrapped in a banana leaf. Used to hate it as a kid, but now I love it! And it's pretty filling!

Italian sausage foil packs. They were okay

italian wedding soup~

So a gay male friend of mine has said some stupid, sexist shit lately (about dudes asking women's dads for their permission to propose to them and the dads "giving" the women to the future husband like she's property or some shit), and when I was venting about it to a different friend that doesn't know him, her response was that I should give him a break because he's gay and therefore "doesn't understand women" since he doesn't have a wife/GF to educate him. Which is BS IMO because he's the only son in a family full of sisters and has a bunch of female friends so "he doesn't get women" is a dumb excuse to me.

On one hand, I'm super pissed at him but I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt at least a little because overall he's a good guy and he's only human and we all say dumb stuff at times, but...IDK.

Am I just overreacting? Is it reasonable to hold gay guys to different standards than straight ones when it comes to sexism, and I'm just crazy? What do you guys think?

Aromantic asexual here to say you don't need to be attracted to people of a given gender in order to "get" them. What the fuck. You're right. He's wrong.

Re: Should you give gay guys more of a pass for sexism than straight guys?

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Ew. It is not the job of women to continually educate adult men. He was taught as a child, he lives in a world where he can read women's perspectives on a whole range of issues with the click of a button. If he's ignoring all of that, then it's deliberate.

You can try giving him a wakeup call about his bullshit, maybe if he is actually a decent person he will change his behaviour and rethink his own prejudices, but honestly why would you want to stay friends with someone who thinks about women that way?

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Re: Should you give gay guys more of a pass for sexism than straight guys?

caecilia - 2020-06-03 00:46 (UTC) - Expand

No, that's just stupid. By that logic straight guys would "get" women and... well, there's plenty of evidence suggesting that this is not automatically the case. Dumb sexist bullshit is dumb sexist bullshit, no matter what the sexual orientation of the person spouting it.

"Cut him some slack with the sexism because he's not around women a lot" is a giant load of bullshit.

(That said: I wouldn't support ending a friendship over that, especially if he's, as you say, overall a good guy.)

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I finally started reading some Ilona Andrews after they've been on my radar for a few years, and shit is wild. Werewolves...from space?! Werewolves from space.

Whatcha reading, f!s?