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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 12:12 am (UTC)(link)And you are missing the point. Because what the fuck are you talking about?
There is such a thing as thinking you are helping someone when you aren't. Enough doctors have done it. Drills in heads and leeches and all kinds of shit. That doesn't make them a bad person.
If someone could "cure" me, and all it would take is five years of my life which I would never remember, I would want them to. I don't care what it would take, so long as I came out the other side able to function, in life, in society, or at anything.
If I died in the process (pre-empting you here), then so be it. It would be better than living my life like I do now.
You will undoubtedly say that I am mentally unstable or something of the like, but people have been saying that about people like me for hundreds of years. I don't really care. I want to be "normal", however you define it. If someone can give that to me, I will take, no matter what the price.
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They did not think they were "helping" her. Adele did not think it counted as rape. They didn't think of her as a human being. Yes, that does make them a bad person.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 12:37 am (UTC)(link)You own issue, perhaps.
I don't think I ever heard Adele say it did not count as rape, or that she wasn't mightily pissed off, or that she didn't think of Pria as a human being. Same for Topher.
This is your feeling. Take ownership of it, but don't speak as though it was fact in the show. It wasn't.
And as a fellow person with A mental health issue, I understand how you feel, but morality is not black and white. Right and wrong, not as clear cut as you are describing.
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Or she would have done it, but her later suddenly deciding it was rape would make no sense whatsoever in terms of character development or logic. Excuse me to think it's you being stupid here, not the writers.
You are either trolling, or genuinely too stupid for it to be worth even attempting to explain this any further. Logic 101, you need to take it. (Unless you ARE trolling, in which case, I guess you've scored a success.)
DA
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 01:01 am (UTC)(link)She didn't suddenly decide it was wrong, it was wrong all along.
And you, dear christ in heaven, you are, I don't even know. I think you missed logic 01, let alone 101.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 01:09 am (UTC)(link)In your opinion.
I have suffered from mental illness. I was raped by someone who claimed to be helping me.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 02:35 am (UTC)(link)But morality is grey; it's not always black and white. I agree with cdaae in this case.
But if morality is black is white and murder is wrong; then self defense is wrong if it ends in the death of the attacker since it's still murder so the person defending themselves might as well allow themselves to be murdered since they'll be killed for murdering their attacker.
If all theft is wrong, let's punish the person stealing food to feed their family the same way we'll punish someone for stealing art, information, cars to support their cocaine habit or simply b/c they'd rather do this instead of honest work.
wrong wrong wrong
(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 05:26 am (UTC)(link)yet that isn't even what happens on the show, they don't think they are raping her for her own good, they think they're doing her good so they're entitled to rape her. so not only is your argument sick and twisted, it's not even accurate to the show, so it's also stupid.
i'd say you are the one with the issue.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 12:44 am (UTC)(link)If she did not think that the dolls were people, or if she simply did not care, why? It had nothing to do with Pria or her being a schizophrenic. So why did she do it?
Clearly, she thought it was abhorrent enough to have the guy killed, which is pretty extreme for someone who doesn't give a shit. What is so difficult to understand about that?
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 12:54 am (UTC)(link)no. we said she didn't care about pria being raped when she thought pria was a schizophrenic. she presumably thinks dolls are more human than schizophrenics; that is the attitude her actions demonstrate. this does not have to be explicitly said a character's speech, because that's how writing works, there's this thing called "show, don't tell."
you keep harping on about your strawman, but that's all you're talking about. your whole argument is a strawman.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 01:21 am (UTC)(link)Yon cdaae has said several times that "they didn't think of her as a human being".
Please read things before you make make a complete ass of yourself.
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Good trolling, mate.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 12:54 am (UTC)(link)What? What? Can I just hit myself in the face now and save myself from your stupidity?
And as for your argument: Can you miss a point that deliberately or did you practice?
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So yeah, "leeches and drilling holes in people's heads" is all perfectly legitimate. Perhaps Anon doesn't know that? Somehow?
question (da)
(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 01:03 am (UTC)(link)Are you sure that's how it went? How was it meant to work?
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)Two different things.
The five years was not how long the cure would take to work; it was the way that she would pay Rossum back for the costs of the cure. (Just assume I'm putting in air-quotes as necessary, to reflect what the characters believe that isn't true.)
The cure was that they were giving her a functioning mind, to replace what seemed to be a hopelessly dysfunctional mind that could not be cured any other way.
Even discounting the fact that, as they discovered, their "cure" wasn't Priya's only hope to someday be mentally well, it's still hella morally questionable on all sorts of levels. But, I would argue, that's the point - and it's not necessarily a question with an easy answer. Like someone said earlier in the thread, if someone is actively refusing medication because they're too delusional to understand their choices, does that mean you shrug and say, "Hey! I'll leave them to suffer!" If there is any case where you say, "No; I believe in letting rational people make their own choices, but this person cannot do that, and someone else has to make those choices for them," then the question becomes when you believe that your overriding of their wishes is justified.
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They weren't just overriding her wishes in order to make her better. They were using her for purposes unrelated to the cure - using her as a doll was not necessary to the cure.
The comparison would be if someone were to force medication on a non-compliant patient, for their own good, and then rented them out as a prostitute while they were drugged out, as "payment" for the cost of the medication.
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>> There is such a thing as thinking you are helping someone when you aren't. Enough doctors have done it. Drills in heads and leeches and all kinds of shit. That doesn't make them a bad person. <<
If Rossum, or Adele, or Topher, wanted to help Priya and were misguided, that wouldn't make them bad people.
Selling her for sex when she didn't consent to it is what makes them bad people.
To help her, they did not need to sell her for sex. They knew she didn't consent and that made it rape. Are you following so far? Okay good. The next step is that they didn't care about it being rape, and in fact Adele specifically did not name it as rape, until they discovered Priya had been drugged and was not genuinely mentally ill. That is what tells us, by a simple process of deduction, that when she did think Priya was mentally ill she didn't think it was rape because she didn't regard a severe schizophrenic as a person worthy of human dignity.
Keep it straight. It has nothing to do with helping her or curing her, because there was no reason they had to sell her for sex, even if the process of turning her into a doll was a magical cure for schizoprenia.
Got it?
thank you!!!!
(Anonymous) 2011-10-30 05:22 am (UTC)(link)cannot believe it needed saying. kept reading this whole thread and shaking my head in stunned and depressed wonder.
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I honestly, honestly do not understand how Anon up there could even need this explaining to them.
I suspect their own issues with the desire to be cured and made normal were so overpowering that they couldn't see anything else.