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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-19 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2117 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2117 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Bo Sinclair / House of Wax (2005); image contains possibly-triggery scars, no self-harm stuff in the text though]


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[The King of Fighters: KYO manga and game]


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14. [SPOILERS for Star Trek Voyager: The Eternal Tide]



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15. [SPOILERS for Damages]



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19. [WARNING for suicide]

[The Walking Dead]


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20. [WARNING for incest]

[A Night at the Roxbury]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #302.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree. I've heard people actually say "Fandom is female space" like anyone (regardless of gender) just gets to stake a claim on fandom and declare who can and cannot participate. You can't stop anyone from being in fandom.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
As long as people are respectful I don't think it should matter. However...I've seen a lot of male dominated spaces. They tend to treat women pretty terribly. Especially gaming fandoms.

"lolz ur not a wominz. Boobs or I'll call u a manz, LOLZ" "I should be able to say rape, women just need to get back into the kitchen" "Wahh, I should be able to sexually harass you ; . ; Why are you being so unfairrr"

Then of course there's the bromies sticking their entitled asses into a space that was meant for young children/young girls.

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
You have to keep this a secret? Get into a better fandom.
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[personal profile] lunabee34 2012-10-19 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Fandom is for everybody!!!
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[personal profile] insolentwitch 2012-10-19 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
This.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Go to hell and take all the men with you.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
oh hi fandomhateswomen

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
oh please

female space and feminist space are not the same thing. i'd hope for the latter but it not being the former is simply a fact
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[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2012-10-20 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
But then who will you have to bitch about?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm hesitant to agree that fandom is a 'safe space' simply because it *is* on the internet, and I've seen way too much crap go down to really believe anywhere on the net is a 'safe space'.

That said, it's kind of ridiculous of anyone to try to ban someone from fandom because of their gender. Not only is that pretty petty [and hateful, I suppose], there's no real way to confirm someone's gender without either meeting them, or knowing someone whose met them.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
All of this.
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[personal profile] intrigueing 2012-10-19 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah IDGI either. I understand having comms labeled as woman-friendly safe-spaces with strict rules and stuff (the only one I've participated in was scans_daily, which was horrible, but I'm sure there are good ones out there) but totally excluding guys with the excuse of making it a safe-space? Uhhhhh...no.
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[personal profile] forgottenjester 2012-10-19 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
... Okay, yes, no one can exclude you from fandom, duh.

But I have a few things to say.

1) I feel with these statements you've never been off LJ/DW. Because seriously? There are huge fandom spaces that are hugely male dominated. So I'm not even sure why this is a problem for you.

2) Holy shit you've met people who've said this seriously? Like, seriously seriously?

3) Are you a troll? Honest question because this secret sounds trollish.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
What exactly constitutes a "main fandom hub"?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-19 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm just curious how they enforce this. I know lots of girls in gaming fandom who have male handles because it keeps the creeps from bothering them. Do the mods of these places do background checks and ban you for having a name like George24 when you're actually Georgina? Do they have to out themselves to the mods? How does anyone prove they are female anyway? It would be awfully hypocritical if they demand pics.

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[personal profile] visp 2012-10-20 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Well aren't you a special snowflake. You wanted to have the self-righteousness of a SJW but were too much of a coward to find something actually minority or even quasi-oppressed to side with, so you picked a fictional injustice against a majority to fight over. Nicely done. No one actually tries to ban an entire gender from a main hub because it'd be absolutely pointless to enforce, so no one will actually side against you on this, and you can still get your "I'm standing up for something" props.

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[personal profile] maverickz3r0 2012-10-20 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think I've ever actually seen anyone say that it should be aside from trolls and lone SJWs, who tend to get told off fairly immediately.

Also, lol what, since when were there 'main fandom hubs'? Fandom is everywhere and extremely spread out.

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
I have nothing but contempt for people in fandom who say "No. Just...no."

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
Meh. If anyone tells you that you can't be in fandom, just tell them to fuck off and continue to enjoy yourself. Leave those people who take fandom way too seriously to their own devices. Let them hang out with other, elitist, fantards of the highest order, and enjoy fandom with the rest of us.

If I heard anyone tell me that males weren't allowed in fandom, I'd laugh in her face, and I'm female. That kind of crap is what takes the fun out of what is, essentially, nothing more than a pastime.

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[personal profile] la_petite_singe 2012-10-20 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
People say that?! I admit that I personally find fandoms that are mostly or all women to be generally more enjoyable, but I don't really seek that out, it just sort of seems to happen. And I certainly would never say they're not allowed. Goddamn, when are people going to understand what feminism actually means?

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[personal profile] silverau 2012-10-20 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
I've hung out in plenty of female-dominated fandom spaces and have literally never seen anyone say that, except one anon on F!S about a year ago who I am 99/% sure was being sarcastic.

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
I have never seen anyone say this even once in my entire fandom life. And if it does happen, I'm 100% positive that the woman in question would get absolutely dogpiled for it because oh no what about teh menz

meanwhile, real women are constantly harrassed in male-dominated fandoms in a public manner that is easy for everyone to see, and no one gives a damn. but nah, who cares about them we should focus on these poor fictional men who have this terrible fictional problem

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KILL YOURSELF

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[personal profile] irri 2012-10-25 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, okay. OP could really be spinning this, because smaller fandom spaces often are virtually completely women, and when a guy pops in not expecting a weird reaction he's kind of being pretty short-sighted. Woman-only spaces are extreeeeeeeeemely rare in the real world, so I can totally imagine that many women in fandom are pretty okay with keeping their tiny fandom spaces the way they are?

Also I. pretty much just can't imagine this happening, to be honest! You say this is a 'main hub'? These days the main sections of fandom are definitely *not* virtually women by nature so a women-ganging-up-on-men in the 'main hub' kind of thing is just sort of a laughable idea.