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⌈ Secret Post #3037 ⌋

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Comments

I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

What's something you do that others would judge or have immediately judged you for?

Then give us your reasons for doing it that the Judgey McJudgersons never stop to find out.

Comment with the biggest emotional whiplash wins.

Re: I judge you / not

[belladonna_took]

Buying gluten-free everything.

"Yes. I'm so hipster my body literally doesn't tolerate it."

Why would I buy food that is less delicious and more expensive unless I had no choice?
I have depressing dreams about eating McCain frozen pizza again, and wake up realising I never will.

Re: I judge you / not

[solticisekf]

On the plus side, eating gluten free became easier as it's got more popular.

Re: I judge you / not

[lb_lee]

Oh god, I know folks who have to go gluten-free, and everything I've seen and heard make it sound HELLISH. Food allergies suck. I'm sorry.

--Rogan

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

my dog is a spoiled brat. he gets good quality steak or chicken every day and refuses to eat any kind of dog food. we spend a good $50/week on food for him and he's only 12 pounds.

because he has inoperable cancer and barely any appetite. making sure he eats anything every day is critical. so many dirty looks for buying steak and talking about giving it to the dog. can fuck off. he eats better than we do.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

hes not in pain btw, before everyone bitches about it. healthy and active, but losing his appetite.

Re: I judge you / not

[belladonna_took]

Aww, doggy :(

I think you're awesome for doing that.

Re: I judge you / not

[philstar22]

Aw. I'm so sorry, anon. That is totally a legit reason to feed your dog chicken and steak.

For a while our dog would only eat chicken and rice because that's what they fed him at the place we got him. We had to ween him onto dog food by putting tuna juice on it, though, because he was starting to get sick.

Re: I judge you / not

[siofrabunnies]

Dude, that's what he should be eating anyway. Processed food isn't nearly as good for your body as unprocessed, especially when it comes to pet food. I wish we actually had the food resources for what you're doing to be economically feasible. Good on you for taking care of your pets! And I hope your dog is at least happy, and I hope you're doing okay.

Re: I judge you / not

[philstar22]

I'm 100% sure everyone in my life, including my liberal and fairly permissive sister, would judge me for my wank material and especially the darker stuff I read. And also my really active daydream life.

A lot of it I find cathartic, though. It helps me deal with my past trauma and with my depression. I also think some of my saving the world fantasies relate to who I am in real life in terms of wanting to help people and actually help me be a better, more confident, braver person.

And as for the wank material, whatever. I don't think they would ever understand my love of power dynamics, but I don't ever intend on sharing my sex life with any of them anyway. I'm not even out as bi to anyone in real life except my sister and I'm damn well not going to tell anyone that not only do I like women but I also kind of like to be in charge.

End rant.

Re: I judge you / not

[sarillia]

This is me too.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

I use super cheap makeup and shampoo/conditioner. My sister, who works in a salon, would die from sheer horror. I literally buy the dollar stuff.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

I do this too. I don't even care if I'm judged for it - It's not like I'm not already judged for being broke.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

I always buy tons of leafy greens at the grocery store, along with the rest of my regular - including super unhealthy junky - food. I know the cashiers judge me because I look like a variation on the stereotype of the lady at a fast food place ordering extra large everything... and a small diet coke.

Real story: The greens are all for my rabbits.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

I get a lot of weird looks and comments because I require a cane to walk, particularly from older people who also use canes, but also just from anyone who decides that I look too young to really need it and therefore, must be faking it.

I was born with bad knees, and had knee surgery when I was 18 that was supposed to help my worst knee but actually just made it even harder to walk on without help. I really do need the cane. You can all stop glaring at me for being young.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

Why would anyone fake needing a cane, I don't even understand why they'd do this.

Re: I judge you / not

[belladonna_took]

When I moved from my last place, the movers asked me if there was more stuff to go because "we found the old person chair in the shower" and they thought I lived with someone elderly.

Haha. No.

They did stop hitting on me after that.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

Not anymore, but when I was in college I requested that instructors use my personal email and not my college email. The thing is that I was a part-time student, and half the time my college email was stuff I didn't really need anyway, so it was just easier for me to ask my professors to use my main email. Then I heard a TA omplaining about how annoying it was when students used their personal email, because then you had to enter in a second email for them.

...sorry, I guess?

This is totally gross

[feotakahari]

The hardest I've ever been judged was back when I was really badly sick, in the early days when I was still figuring out how to handle it. I was in the library, thumbing through some manga about a guy who starts turning into a mutant dog-person. There was all this stuff about him trying to convince other people he was still human, and I didn't really get it.

I suddenly started coughing something up, and at that time, I wasn't carrying around any tissues. I remembered a tissue box by the information desk, so I ran as fast as I could, but I didn't quite make it and wound up coughing gunk and spit on the floor in front of the desk. The lady at the desk glared and told me to leave the library, and I just cringed away from her, like a dog. That was how I understood that manga.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

My mother is depressed. She keeps saying things like "there's no point to my life" and "I don't care about anything" and "whatever, I'll just die"... and while everyone will yell at me for it and everyone hates anyone who isn't 100% anti-suicide, I don't care.

The reason I don't care is, she's a religious fundamentalist and depressed because I'm queer. There's quite literally nothing I can do as the "source" of her depression besides walk the proverbial straight and narrow and when it's my life or hers, no.

Re: I judge you / not

[caerbannog]

I was going to this dog meet up group but now I'm not sure - the group owner considers operant training and clicker training (and leads?!) to be dog abuse. They reckon all dogs should only be trained through cooperation?? And cites them raising 4 generations of beagles from puppy to adult hood?? Which isn't that much?

So they're judging me and I'm now judging them and not so sure I want to take my dog to these meets if he's gonna fuck up her training.

Re: I judge you / not

[solticisekf]

I have a bad memory for names, places, historical dates and the periodic table. People judge me when I can't remember who wrote what classic book. I've most likely read it but I can easily mix the author with someone else. All of this doesn't happen too often but I often come across as ignorant.

I'm often late.

I think that more expensive food is better. People judge me when I buy free range eggs.

Etc etc etc, lol.

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

I'm often late. I don't really have an excuse; I'm poorly organized and don't manage my time well. I often read an etiquette site where I routinely see posts that people who are late are terrible, horrible people who behave the way they do because they're completely self-centered and have no respect for anyone.

Re: I judge you / not

[lb_lee]

*snort* Existing.

Some people seem to take the fact that we don't fake singletude for them extremely personally, like I'm attacking them just by being here. I've been accused of being selfish, cruel, told to kill myself... you know, all the usual shit. And not by anonymous trolls, by close friends and family members.

The thing is, we TRIED to fake normalcy. We did it with varying levels of success for YEARS. The problem was, it consumed so much energy that we had an episode, tried to jump off a bridge, and lost job and home. And now I am just too fucking tired to do it anymore. If it comes down to making assholes comfortable or risking another episode, I'll take the trolls, thanks.

--Rogan

Re: I judge you / not

[(Anonymous)]

I've decided to be a single adult childless woman.

Most people aren't aware that I've refused to be in most relationships because childhood abuse has left me vulnerable to other types of abuse, and I don't want that translating into what should be romance. That, and I typically don't care to be in a relationship unless I'm balls-crazy for a dude.

Childless because I'm not interested in children, but I also don't want to risk passing along the abuse to them. I won't even hold other people's babies or connect with kids until they're closer to 10.