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⌈ Secret Post #4101 ⌋

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[fscom]

General comments:

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[(Anonymous)]

tw: everything

i have asked around and no consensus was found, so i turn to you.

in light of stormy news, is it weirder if trump spray-tans his genitalia, or weirder if he does not?

[(Anonymous)]

the tw was sarcastic before anyone panics about this thread of deep political discussion

[(Anonymous)]

I...don't think I want spray-tan in my stuff. I imagine even someone who pours candle wax in her pants for a living would be less than thrilled with it. I imagine his wife would be even less thrilled with it. So I'm going with crazier if not weirder if he does.

[(Anonymous)]

Do you think he has a crotch comb-over?

Fandom talk

[(Anonymous)]

You know the drill, change the reply's subject for the topic you want to discuss.

Channel Awesome

[(Anonymous)]

So it's been known for a long time that CA's business practices have not been... good, to put it mildly. I made a secret about it about three years ago, saying that I'd kinda wish it would crash and burn. I haven't followed the site for years, sticking to watching the contributors I still like through youtube.

Some things seem to be coming to a head. Linkara, one of the biggest names still remaining, has left the site. Several others have left as well (Suede, MikeJ, SFDEbris). Former contributors are compiling a google document on all the mis-treatment that will be published on April 2nd.

Anyway, I've been reading a lot of the talk surrounding this, and it has been bumming me out, mostly because the site used to be a big part of my online life for a few years back in the day.

Also the cynical part of me thinks that even with the doc's release, the Walkers and Michaud will just do as they always do and refuse to comment and nothing will change. I doubt most of Nostalgia Critic's viewers know about this stuff.

Buffy

[philstar22]

Every time I watch this show, I come to love it more and more. I relate so much to both Buffy and Willow. I want a dad or father figure like Giles. I don't even really ship anything except Willow/Tara and Willow/Oz. Everything about this show I just love. So, anything you want to talk about Buffy, I'm game.

Coming out to family but not to other family

[philstar22]

So, my cousin and I are fairly close. We like a lot of the same things, and we talk online a lot. I haven't come out to her yet, though (or anyone else in my family who isn't my sister or brother-in-law). And I love my aunt and wouldn't mind coming out to her either. But she and my mom talk about everything. And I'm scared my aunt would tell my mom even if I asked her not to, even though my aunt is super liberal and nothing like my mother. But my mom finding out would not be okay. I don't know what she'd do, but since I'm still living at home, I don't want to find out.

Is it safe to come out to my cousin, who is really close to her mom and I think talks to her about most things? Can I come out to my aunt and get assurances from her and trust her?

I'm just so new to this coming out thing. Honestly, but I want to have more people know because I have no one here who knows. Everyone I know is either my parents or attends their homophobic church. Or is people I do work with, so it wouldn't be appropriate. My sister is the only one in my life, really, who knows. But she's so busy, and our relationship has other issues, so we never talk. I just want someone to talk to, you know?

Sorry for the length. I'm just frustrated and lonely.

Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry if we've asked this question before: How long have your parents been going to this homophobic church? Is it part of their upbringing, something relatively recent, or somewhere in between?

I don't know your family. This could work out all right, or blow up incredibly badly. You are asking other people to keep a secret. Some of us are actually totally fine with that; some folks aren't.

I think if you do have someone you can talk to about it, be grateful. That means there is hope.

Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

[(Anonymous)]

Going by your previous comments on the gc, it sounds like you're still very financially dependent upon your parents and would be in trouble if they kicked you out. Personally, I'd wait until you're sure you can support yourself and get a place of your own, without having to rely on the good will of people who... I'm sorry...don't sound very supportive or understanding at all.

Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

[(Anonymous)]

It's really hard to know whether people know/realize not to tell. I had some friends out me to a classmate without my knowledge. Nothing bad happened, but it still was a thing that should not have been theirs to share. They just didn't know they weren't supposed to tell, because hey I know that person. Made me wonder how many others they'd told before I caught wind of it.

If you can somehow make sure that despite the fact your cousin tells her mom everything, and your aunt talks to your mom a lot, they'd respect the fact that this is not something you want spread, then sure go ahead. But just be wary that some people don't realize that it is a big deal to share that kind of stuff with others without consent.

I'm sorry I wish I had an easy yes or no answer. Talking to them about how it's important to you that you get to decide who knows and when might help.

Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

[(Anonymous)]

I don't suppose you could go live with your cool aunt?
I know it's easier said than done, but isn't there a club or volunteer opportunity somewhere where you can meet people who aren't your colleagues or family members? Classic film series at the library? Earth Day park clean up?

Re: Coming out to family but not to other family

[(Anonymous)]

I think it depends on whether or not your cousin can keep a secret, but I personally wouldn't. Everyone YOU think can keep a secret knows someone THEY think can keep a secret.

I could see something like this happening:

You tell your cousin, because you're close and you talk a lot. You can probably trust her not to tell everyone.

But she's close to your aunt, and they talk a lot, and she can trust her own mom not to tell everyone. So she tells your aunt.

And your aunt is close to your mom and they talk a lot. So your aunt tells your mom. Or accidentally lets it slip without meaning to. And now your mom knows.

So, yeah. I wouldn't. Not until you're in a good place financially and able to go live on your own if you need to.

[kaijinscendre]

The polling is done and Event Horizon has won! I have links to some alternative streaming places on my dreamwidth. It is streaming on Starz Sub (you can get a 7 day trial through Amazon)!

We will discuss the movie April 7th. I am changing the date from March 31st, but I have something to do that weekend.

Based on 4

[(Anonymous)]

Share any fic or headcanons of weird genitalia.

Re: Based on 4

[philstar22]

Well, Sauron in the Silmarillion is a shapeshifter. So I wish fandom explored that more. Tentacle porn is on my list of things to write at some point. I think I read an Arwen/Aragorn fic once where elves have tentacle genitals.

The Doctor also seems to have some small amount of choice in what form he regenerates to (Romana certainly does have choice). So there is a lot of fun that could be had with that. I want Doctor/Master fic where they both have weird genitalia.

Dwarves. Dwarf women look similar to dwarf men. So much fun that could be had with that. Hermaphrodites who change gender? Not possible in canon, but that could make for a great fic. Or maybe Dwarf women just have really big labia that are very penile and can penetrate?

Re: Based on 4

[(Anonymous)]

Spock, in "Poses," the sequel to the legendary story "Shelter" (both by Leslie Fish; go look her up on Fanlore):

What he found was definitely abnormal: the protective petals were relaxed and half opened, the two anchoring tendrils were partially extended, the modulated shaft was almost fully emerged and the whole apparatus was hypersensitive and... sticky.

Re: Based on 4

[kaijinscendre]

This Loki/Jotun fic. https://archiveofourown.org/works/870679

What made you stop consuming a media you loved?

[(Anonymous)]

Re: What made you stop consuming a media you loved?

[(Anonymous)]

- laziness
- it got bad

Re: What made you stop consuming a media you loved?

[nightscale]

Disinterest. It doesn't happen all the time, but if I can't be bothered keeping up with a show/movie/book/game I'm into then my time with it is done.

Hello late night FSers!

[(Anonymous)]

*waves hi* Hope you are doing well!

The blue ink I just put on my genitals really burns

[thewakokid]

I don't know how many people know about this but...

[thewakokid]

http://en.akinator.com/

Have you guys seen this? I'm spending an inordinate amount of time playing this.