[ SECRET POST #4155 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4155 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 40 secrets from Secret Submission Post #595.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Non fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

Do you have one?

Re: Non fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

I'm addicted to cannabis, and do it every day. It improves my life (I use it to help with depression and back pain), but I'm ashamed of the fact.

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[tabaqui]

Do *not* be ashamed! Your 'addiction' (it's not considered physically addictive) keeps you functioning and happy. There's nothing shameful about that.

This works for you, and that's a good thing. I'm glad you found something that can ease your pain and depression!

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[(Anonymous)]

If it's legit helping you, why feel shame? Would you feel the same way about having to take an antidepressant and prescription pain meds every day?

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[philstar22]

Don't be ashamed. If I could do it without losing my license to practice law, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Nothing else has helped my pain, so I'd totally try it.

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[(Anonymous)]

I don't want to do anything for my birthday but my family already invited people over to mine, so I have to clean my place and buy food they like so I don't have to hear them complain. I sound ungrateful because I am. Nobody asked me at any point. They all hate my place and will stand around talking about how I don't have enough room or chairs or it's cold. It's the way I like it because I live here and I don't like inviting people over in large groups.

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[(Anonymous)]

Can you make reservations for them all at a nearby restaurant? Or get your family to to so? Bringing up your points (not enough room, etc) might be persuasive.

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[(Anonymous)]

Wow. Does your family do that kind of thing often? It seems really rude and presumptuous that they don't care what you want. You have my permission to cancel, turn off the lights, lock the door and have a quiet night in by yourself. Phrase it somewhat passive aggressively if you want, i.e. "Hello everyone! I know my family invited you all over to my house, but actually I'm not prepared for company right now, so I'm calling it off. Maybe my family can host a gathering at their house if they want? Thanks everyone, and hope you're all having a good weekend!"

And seriously, put your foot down with your family about not pulling this crap again, or they'll just use you as a doormat forever.

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[(Anonymous)]

That's a pretty crummy thing for your family to do, anon. I'm sorry.

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[greghousesgf]

god, that's rude! I wish I could give help other than offering my empathy. You really can't pick your family, can you?

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[(Anonymous)]

Okay this is a weird one, but... If I could have one sexual fantasy wish come true, I would spend a month as a handsome and charismatic man in his late twenties, dress in exquisitely tailored suits and basically woo ladies with flowers and romantic evenings. Wouldn't even have to end in sex. I love flirting and I find women incredibly attractive. But sex with women only appeals to me if I could physically be a man. But I'm not trans and feel perfectly at home as a woman.

My brain is freaking weird.

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[(Anonymous)]

I like your brain! That's a sexy fantasy, tbh!

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[(Anonymous)]

OMG SAME. I don't want to be a man and I'm definitely not trans. Like you, I find women attractive but I'd only want to have sex if I could experience what it's like to have a penis. Lesbian relationships hold zero interest for me.

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[(Anonymous)]

Me too.

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[(Anonymous)]

Relax, it's just a fantasy. It's okay. Don't get freaked out. It doesn't mean you're transgendered.

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[(Anonymous)]

I think this is a common power fantasy for women. If I were an attractive men, I would definitely romance some of my female friends because I think they're awesome, but as a woman I'm not interested in being with one.

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[(Anonymous)]

I am the anon complaining about having to loan money to my dad awhile back. I really wish he'd just lose his house (I guess he is having IRS problems and may) so he would not have an excuse not to move.

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[(Anonymous)]

Don't loan money to anyone unless you can afford it and you're willing to never see it again. And I mean REALLY willing, as in you don't care if the money's gone forever and you're not going to feel even the slightest resentment toward the person about it. Seriously. Lending money to people you dislike is just punishing yourself, and lending money to people you like endangers the relationship.

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[(Anonymous)]

I don't drink alcohol and my coworkers can't seem to accept that. I don't care if people drink and I'm not judging or anything, but it's not for me. My coworkers apparently think my way of thinking is wrong and are always gifting me beer and wine. Like damn, these are the people DARE should've warned me about. The potheads I know only asked me once if I wanted to sample some and respected my choice when I said no.

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[(Anonymous)]

Your coworkers are idiots. I love me some red wine, but I recognize that choosing not to drink is 100% normal and valid, and people need to stop pressuring others into doing stuff to justify their own choices.

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[(Anonymous)]

Yeah I've got a friend who doesn't drink who gets the same problem. Why people can't just get off her case about it IDK. It's like people take her decision not to drink personally.

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[(Anonymous)]

I'm planning to kill myself soon. Life is just too tiring. It never works out for me. My family and friends are worthless.

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[(Anonymous)]

I think it's hilarious that people get super mad and defensive if you dare suggest that pot isn't a miracle funtimes drug.

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[(Anonymous)]

I think I may be a sex addict. Is it possible to be a virgin and yet addicted to sex? I spent most of my free time reading smutty fics or watching porn. And it makes a huge difference to my day whether I've orgasmed before I get up. And I think about sex all the time.

I don't think it interferes with my regular life. But I do think I could be doing better things with my free time, but i don't want to. I want to read smut.

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[thewakokid]

I am deeply unhappy with my life. Most of it is going perfectly fine, but certain parts of it are a bit of a living hell right now. I'm sure rationally it will get better, but I just cant see it.