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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)same thing with, say, scrubs. yeah, turk and jd are cute and gay and so on but I'm kinda more interested in jd's daddy issues and his relationship with asshole cox or the janitor because there's more tension there. It's not the being white.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)Doesn't really make me want to wade into that mess.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)You're not wrong in any way. And I hope people can be reasonable about it, and acknowledge that these issues exist, because I reckon they clearly do. But even in the best case scenario, I strongly doubt anything is going to change about how fandom works.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:16 pm (UTC)(link)Your call outs aren't going to change anything because people who don't care aren't even going to read them, let alone stop to go "OH NO I'M ONLY SHIPPING WHITE PEOPLE I SHOULD CHECK MY PRIVILEGE IMMEDIATELY".
You're basically being proud of shouting into an echo chamber.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)I...dk, being told that we must not ship white men grates on me. What if that's who I, as a POC, want to objectify? What's wrong with that?
If people like me weren't the ones they were talking about, why sweep us all under the same rug and assume we're all white?
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)It is why (for the most part) people date inside their own racial groups. This is also exacerbated by the fact people often date inside their own socioeconomic and geographic groups.
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It just feels kind of disingenuous to find the one POC guy in a show and pair him off with someone else because he is a POC. In fact, now that I type it out like that I'm pretty sure I'd have people on my case about fetishizing if I tried to do something like that.
So idk. It just seems kind of like there should be more shouting about representation and less about white cocks, you know?
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)Also lol at this "only white guys are ever slashed" thing. okay, western-media fans, branch out into the other side, of anime and j(/k)-drama.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)So yeah, I guess I'm just a racist! Nanny nanny boo boo.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)So for example Stony really annoyed me in the MCU, because I came from Iron Man and Tony/Rhodey was my ship, and also because Stony seemed to be riding on the comics, and also because Steve has enough people he can be shipped with so just go ship him with Bucky or something and leave Tony out of it. None of which are particularly laudible or high-minded reasons. I would say Clint/Phil annoyed me too, but to be honest I didn't care about Clint and mostly just didn't read it. And Rayleigh/Chuck annoyed me in Pacific Rim because for fuck's sake, was there no more pointless and stereotypical rival ship you could have gone for? At least Newt/Hermann, while still white dick, felt like it had some meat to it and ran on a slightly different set of tropes. (Also, if you're going to ship a Hansen, Herc/Stacker is an infinitely more interesting and painful option).
My problems in the M7 fandom were slightly different, in that people shipping Ezra with other people did seem to have a tendency to be actively racist towards Nathan, but I think a lot of it would boil down to my prefering Ezra/Nathan and wishing the whole fandom wasn't so bloody caught up in some combination of Ezra/Vin/Chris.
What I'm saying is, the tendency of fandom to go for certain types of ships probably annoys me mostly because they're almost never my favourite ships, rather than because it's often my interracial ships that get shafted. Though that too. But mostly it's because they pick the boring and/or annoying ones, if I'm honest.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)And if you're wondering why white people wouldn't openly ship POC ships it's probably because they get accused of fetishizing or cultural appropriation, I've seen it before. If you're white then you can't draw/write a POC because they'll just get 15 anon messages saying "UM :) WOW YOU MAYONAISE WHITE BREAD :) NICE JOB FETISHIZING POC :) GO KILL YOURSELF LMAO :)" So don't act surprised when people walk on eggshells.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)The only way not to be racist is to agree with you. Thing is, for the (average) white fan, it's never about representation or race. It's just about fun, and bringing racism into it is making it not fun. Now I get that it's incredibly not fun for you, and for that I'm sorry, but if in one fandom I ship the whitecock instead of the cock of color, I'm not going to force myself to churn out a bunch of fics about cocks of color. No one will. It wouldn't be fun for me. You're more than free yourself to do it, though. Or leave comments/praise on the people who do.
I do feel like fandom is slowly getting better than that. It's a long process, though. Internet being what is it, the social justice inclined want change and they want it right now and perfect and never offending anyone, and that just won't happen. It's just setting yourself up for disappointment. Some people will grow and learn from harsh critique, but some people will just come back into their shells, or leave for greener pastures where it can be fun again.
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(Anonymous) 2016-09-24 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)Shipping doesn't work that way.
And the fastest way to get other fans to NOTP or NOT3 your ships is to run around accusing them of being whatever-ist for not shipping your ships.
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