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If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

: )

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I would like to stop wearing a bra and not get comments about my nipples showing.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Especially as that can happen even while wearing a bra, if it's not a padded one. But yeah, I hate having to wear a bra for the comfort of other people.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

People comment about your nipples showing? Wtf? I'd be like, "Bitch then don't look at my nipples?"

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[mrs_don_draper]

^^^^^^^^^^

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

YASS

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I would like all comments about my boobs ever to stop.
It's not fine if you're giving me a compliment.
It's not fine if you're a woman and you think it's okay to compare sizes or ask questions because we are both women.

Stooooop.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Eating meat with every meal is healthy.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[comma_chameleon]

Wait, is this the norm, or you want it to be the norm, I am confused.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I agree with this, though not so much for the sake of the animals or the people eating meat with every meal, but for environmental/sustainability reasons.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I wish it were socially acceptable to sing and dance to music in stores.

I honestly think people would be happier.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I used to do that, still do it sometimes. Missing my dance partner :)

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I actually do this in stores. I try not to be too loud or obnoxious about it though.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Dreadful karaoke in shops is all I need (not)

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I wish so too. I always have to stop myself from doing it - especially when I'm at work, stocking shelves in an aisle alone or something. Although I suppose it'd be funny, for whoever watches the cameras.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I was out having sushi at a crowded restaurant this evening. As I was leaving, Shake It Off came on, and I swear I saw/heard at least four separate people singing along as I made my way towards the door. It was kind of awesome.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[bur]

Women wearing makeup. Fuck you, makeup. I boggle that there are people who, even if they're just wearing sweats or something equally sloppy, won't show their face in public without at least mascara or lipstick. That's fucked up. That's some unfair pressure.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

Still have those stigma not showing raw/bland face in the public....

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[comma_chameleon]

That boggles me too. I put make up on for weddings. Maybe for concerts if I want to look a little extra cute because the concerts I always go to I am like... 10 feet max from the artist and I can make eyes at them. >__>

I prefer sleep over looking pretty, tbh. Since I'm not like... terribly ugly at base level.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

change all of it tbh

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

I can't pick just one!

Toxic masculinity and the harm it does. It isn't normal and we shouldn't act like it is.

Yards and lawns. People need to grow food and trees! If you can, if you have land...it should do more than look green and use chemicals / water. People need to eat, and always have: lawns are just not a great idea, if that's all you do with your land. Laws and "norms" that encourage this happen need to change.

College education. The idea that taking on massive debt is a good idea, and that college is or should be for everyone, aka if you're not a loser you should totally do college! This isn't working very well for a lot of people for a variety of reasons. Partly overcharging by universities, not enough good jobs for paying off the debt, and the way a degree isn't necessarily worth as much these days. People need to really think and plan and not take on debt without a good reason.

Credit cards. In my country, they're pretty normal. They shouldn't be. Have you seen the interest they charge? That's apparently one of the major ways banks make money these days...fees and interest... That's not a good, sustainable, healthy plan.

The idea that health care isn't a right. In my country, things are kinda messy with this whole "pay up or die loser" idea that only rich people really deserve the best of care, and everyone else had better fend for themselves or not get sick. (And no, I don't think Obamacare aka "buy insurance, bitch, even if there's nothing you can afford!" is a reasonable answer.

Sports. Just generally, sports. I don't like them. I don't like the asshole sports fan culture. I don't like tax money being paid in sacrifice to sports. I don't like humans being sacrificed to sports (brain injuries, sexual predators ignored, and much more). I'm sure there's a place for sports in the modern world, but I think they way they are now, in general, is pretty asinine and not a force for good in the world.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[greghousesgf]

our culture is way too hung up on looks, especially if you're female.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

That asking about your relationship status is a norm.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[(Anonymous)]

As someone who has a job and a house and healthcare and enough to eat and everything, I’d change the expectation that the basics of a comfortable life have to be earned. Everyone deserves food, shelter, clothes, education, healthcare, and to be free of abuse. Work should only be required if people want fancy clothes or a fancy house or money for hobbies, not because they’ll die of ill-health, exposure, starvation, or of violence from family or a significant other that they can’t afford to leave if they don’t.

Re: If you could change one social norm, what would it be?

[skeletal_history]

Pay waiters a fair wage and stop tipping.