[ SECRET POST #1654 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1654 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[David Tennant & Catherine Tate]


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[The Nine Lives Of Chloe King]







Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 46 secrets from Secret Submission Post #236.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - too big ], [ 0 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 0 - omgiknowthem ], [ 1 - take it to comments ], [ 1 - repeats ]
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Comments

[fscom.livejournal.com]

TRIGGER WARNING FOR SUICIDE

08. http://i53.tinypic.com/2vah176.png

[(Anonymous)]

I really hope you're a troll. Now if you'll excuse me. *Hits the deck for ensuing wank*

[dodgerofzion.livejournal.com]

Some friend you are.

[(Anonymous)]

uhhhh wow. I've never hoped for a troll so hard in my life

[techno4tomcats.livejournal.com]

Please tell me you are trolling.
Seriously.

Someone threatens suicide? You get the fucking ambulance, you get the hotline. YOU DON'T TELL 'EM TO SHUT UP AND LISTEN TO K/J/WHATEVER POP. I am so angry right now, because if it's true, OP, you may have let someone die that didn't have to.

Never treat suicide as a joke.
never

[(Anonymous)]

Holy shit you are pretty much the dumbest ass

[(Anonymous)]

Why on earth would anyone think that suggesting k-pop to someone would save them from impending suicide?

I hope you're a troll.

[(Anonymous)]

[(Anonymous)]

I can't stop laughing. You're an idiot, and your friend is an idiot too.

[helenadax.livejournal.com]

In case that's true, I'm sorry. I guess you didn't have any experience dealing with suicides, maybe you're very young. But it wasn't your fault, you just were trying to help.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. But don't let anyone, including yourself, honestly blame you for her suicide. You tried to help her, and it didn't work. It might not have worked if you had tried to help her via a suicide hotline or anything else. Your friend is gone because of something she did, not because of something you didn't do.

[(Anonymous)]

Annnnd this is why shit like this is a secret, you guys.

Honestly? The OP had a lapse of fucking judgment. Don't act like you're saints who've never made mistakes, or would instantly know the exact thing to do if someone told you they were going to kill themselves. I bet most of you have never even been in that situation. It's incredibly shitty that a lapse of judgment had to end with a life taken, but that's what it fucking is. And OP is going to have to live with the guilt of that for the rest of hir life already. You don't need to open up your pasty asscheeks and rain shit all over hir even more.

[leafing.livejournal.com]

Damn.

[ncc-gqmf.livejournal.com]

Okay, I do think this is a troll, but in the unlikely event that it's not, OP, it's not your fault. You did make a mistake, but you did not cause your friend to kill herself. She made that decision, and it's entirely possible that even the hotline wouldn't have helped.

Learn from this, but don't blame yourself.

[azelmaroark.livejournal.com]

As someone who's been blamed for the suicide of those who were very close to me, all of you who are flinging insults at OP need to step the fuck down.

Nobody killed OP's friend but OP's friend. It is not OP's responsibility to prevent. After over five years, I'm still not over it, particularly the way I was treated for being nineteen and confused and not knowing what to do, and I don't know if I ever will be. Think before you speak.

ETA: I actually do hope this is a troll because I would hate to think of a person honestly posting this and being treated the way you guys have treated them here. =(

[(Anonymous)]

Changmin's Terribly Serious Turtleneck might have finished me off too.

[oflittlebrain.livejournal.com]

oh my god this is a fucking hot mess what do i even say

[(Anonymous)]

*hugs*

You tried something that had worked for other people. It didn't work for your friend. It wasn't that you didn't try at all, and believe me, suicide hotlines don't always work either.

*hugs again*

Please don't blame yourself. Sometimes you can't stop the avalanche. If the situation rises again with a different, you'll make different choices, and I hope they're more successful. The most important thing, though, is that you try.

[(Anonymous)]

On the chance that this may not be a troll, bb I'm so sorry. I can only imagine what a hard situation this would be to go through. I know if I was in the same situation I would have regrets for the rest of my life, but you have to realize that it wasn't your fault and you're not a terrible person. *hugs*

Also, a situation like this isn't so farfetched as some of you commenters on this secret might think it is.

[(Anonymous)]

oh well, that's Cassies for ya. Always taking shit too seriously.

[(Anonymous)]

Okay, I'm sure that there might be people for whom an aural injection of K-pop might be just the prescription they need to bring them back from the edge. And I'm sure that in those situations, recommending such an injection might be useful advice. I'm also sure that those situations are vanishingly rare.

I'm also totally sure that the specific situation described here did not in fact exist and that OP's friend is sat alongside them right now laughing along at the wank they created.

[(Anonymous)]

It's not your fault. <3

[xenafox.livejournal.com]

WOW. "I'm thinking of killing myself!" "Okay, but LISTEN TO MY FANDOM!" fuck you seriously.

[melissasbrain.livejournal.com]

I'm raging pretty hard at this, and yet...

Don't feel too bad, OP. Yes, it was a serious lapse in judgment, but not everyone knows how to react to a suicidal individual. The death of your friend was unfortunate, but what's done is done. Try not to linger on this too much, and just move on.

[(Anonymous)]

Don't beat yourself up. Your friend reached out for help from the wrong person. She won't be making that mistake again.