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But it was literally my only friend who I've ever seen doing this, so it's not really enough to get me bent out of shape either way.
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Moreover, yeah, as tall, not particularly feminine woman with an androgynous voice it's irksome that those characteristics automatically = not cis-gendered, to some.
Oh fuck you
The rest of the world isn't as enamored with tumblr lingo.
It's also fucking misogynist.
Edit: That's imprecise. It's fucking SEXIST. You can like women and still have weird messed up ideas about them. Not that, you know, you're better now.
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-15 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)And in the end, whatever, it's someone else's headcanon. Who cares, unless you live in their head?
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-16 12:07 am (UTC)(link)Headcanons where a butch(ish) canon-woman must be trans* - can't criticise anyone for that, but if it's ubiquitous I start to think that overall it's less about identification, or gender playfulness, and more about "butch = male amirite".
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I feel like a lot of the discussion that surrounds "genderfluidity" is ignoring a rather big component of gender, namely that it's socially constructed. The conversation plays at challenging stereotypes and confronting gender issues, but it actually operates within the same bullshit framework that gives rise to those stereotypes and issues.
If your gender identity is actually fluid to a particular extent, or runs contrary to how you prefer to pass physically, then that's great and it should be accepted. But don't assume that everyone who steps outside of traditional roles or behaviors or interests or what-have-you is the same way. That's...kind of exactly the sort of thing you're complaining about.
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I mean she's wearing a dress so she's feminine, right?
But she's into all this voting stuff and that's totes not a lady thing
What pronoun should I use for Susan B Anthony I don't want to misgender it
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[Picture is Zoë Hanji/Hange and Levi/Rivai/Rivaille from the anime "Shingeki no Kyojin" or "Attack on Titan". Zoe is a young woman with light skin and long pinkish purple hair pulled into a ponytail, wearing eyeglasses. Levi is a young man with light skin and short, straight dark hair. They are both wearing a sort of military uniform, consisting of a white shirt, a short brown jacket, white pants/trousers, reddish brown boots and an elaborate system of harnesses all over their bodies. Zoe is smiling and making a "V" peace sign with her hand next to her forehead, while she slings her other arm around Levi. Levi is frowning and looking to the side, while crossing his arms in front of his chest.]
I can't stand the way that every slightly 'masculine' woman, or one who shows the slightest hint of genderfluid interests or personality is automatically headcanoned to be trans*.
It feels like a serious erasure of the uncountable numbers of us who exist.
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-16 02:16 am (UTC)(link)However ,you can't cay someone else is genderfluid if they don't consider themselves such. (talking about real people of course) I don't believe on imposing it every character that isn't 100% 'girl' or 'boy' but I also don't believe in dismissing something that some people actually like to identify as.
It seems just as disrespectful if, say because I started wearing my hair short or dressing guyish people started considering me a guy and telling me I was a guy and should answer to "him" and "he".
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