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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-03-15 03:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2993 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2993 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 123 secrets from Secret Submission Post #428.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 - pretty sure these are all the same spammer anon trying to win the non-existent "weirdest fandomsecret/sex fantasy" award. There are more I missed, and some that went up yesterday. If one of these is not the same anon, please PM me ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:16 pm (UTC)(link)
YOU CAN'T BE RACIST AGAINST WHITE PEOPLE CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE A BLOO BLOO BLOO

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel you're trying to be flippant, but in a western country you actually can't be racist against whites

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
Good grief.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Honestly, I've never been made to feel worse about my race (online at least, though this in no way compares to real life) than by the people being discussed in your secret OP.

(Not white, but I am white passing Middle-Eastern and some people were so dismissive and condescending that I felt enormously alienated).
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[personal profile] feotakahari 2015-03-15 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not gonna argue the point, but "as an egalitarian" is one step removed from "I'm not a racist, but . . ." Just say what you want to say, and leave off the disclaimer.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
No. It isn't.

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-03-15 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I got that vibe too.

It's kind of like "screw feminism; I'm an egalitarian!" It often ends up coming from a place of not being comfortable with complete gender equality (for example, still wanting to put everyone into traditional gender roles, even if they're all for sociopolitical equality) and latching onto their idea of feminism as represented by feminist extremists or their perceived version of man-hatin' feminism.

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:43 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

It really is not.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Just to clarify: Would you say the same if the disclaimer read "I'm a feminist, but"? Like, is the problem the "disclaimer, but (comment that negates the disclaimer)"?

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Yo this. In my experience at least, equalitarians are the kind of people who constantly bring up the "but what about men?!" argument whenever possible no matter how little sense it makes, but when actual male issues come up like rape or unhealthy social norms, they'll just ignore it or make jokes or accuse all feminists of bring evil harpies and never so anything productive.

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Calling the black character a queen is racist by no definition I know

Ah, whatever, I don't know the fandom, maybe they really are as crazy as everyone says. Still, I think it's hard to isolate what's just general fan craziness, and what's specifically racist.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't say it's racist, but I think it's putting characters on pedestals which, to me, is kind of fetishizing and dehumanizing.

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
That would entirely depend on context, since in some political circles the "Welfare" in the front would be implied.

Of course, I don't know the fandom either, so whatever.

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I don't think that's what the secret poster is saying.

(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 07:14 am (UTC)(link)
I think they are saying that SJWs call out people for treating black characters the same as the SJWs are treating Katrina, while saying it's okay because Katrina is white and Abbie is black. Of course, that ignores the misogyny (setting them up as competition, having to tear one down at all, spewing character hate because one is in a relationship with the guy they want the other one with, etc.). And, yeah that's generally part of rabid shippers, but the vitriol that gets directed at certain female characters can be shocking

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Without context it's hard to tell if the comparison is decent. Are these two characters similar? Is the white one judged more harshly for doing something that the black one also did?

Sometimes people are easier on one group without realizing it, so when a member of that group does something terrible, it's directly compared to a lesser crime committed by someone from another group. It's not necessarily your fault, but it's something to watch in yourself as well as others.

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:37 pm (UTC)(link)
This reminds me of a secret I made a little while back about female characters and how they're either sorted into

A: bitches, sluts, whores, etc.

or

B: flawless queens

I really hate both. A for putting women down (especially with gendered insults) and B for putting women on pedestals (which denies them their humanity).

(Anonymous) 2015-03-15 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
It's more sexist than racist. Calling a female character misogynistic names is the worst thing you can do in fandom... unless you're doing it to a white female character in order to uplift another female character who's a POC. Then not only is it fine, it's encouraged. By the same people who harass you for doing it under any other circumstances.

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[personal profile] othellia 2015-03-15 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Except in this instance the bitch vs queen was caused by shipping, not by race.

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better wank bait than some of the more recent troll secrets.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2015-03-15 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I have seen (some) people mention Katrina's race in a way that makes me uncomfortable, but honestly...I feel like a lot of people dislike her because they don't like what the writers (and to a lesser extent, the actress) did with the character.

I imagine some Ichabod/Abbie shippers hate her too (outside of just not finding her character well written or whatever), but shippers hating on characters they feel 'threaten' their ship isn't exactly a new phenomenon. Maybe race has a hand in it, but from what I've seen it isn't a massive one.

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
I was so hoping Abbey and Katrina would become friends. That Abbey would roll out the welcome wagon for Katrina. It would have been SO much better if they'd handled it that way.

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(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
Image: Kristina with BITCH! painted across her chest, and Abby with QUEEN!

Text: Listen as a egalitarian, I’m all for Diversity in Media…but I’d take the racism that goes on a bit more seriously if SJWS didn’t pull the same shit that appartently makes fandom racist on white characters

((See Sleepy Hollow for an example I didn’t like Katrina but Christ!))

(Anonymous) 2015-03-16 05:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm an Ichabod/Abbie shipper and naturally I love Abbie but I'm not into the way even entertainment sites set the two characters up as rivals. You don't have to tear one character down to appreciate the other. Of course, I'm not into putting characters on pedestals either and that mentality is huge among fans like that.
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[personal profile] iggy 2015-03-17 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
'as an egalitarian'

lmao.