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[ SECRET POST #3516 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3516 ⌋
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04. [SPOILERS for Inside]

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06. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]
[WARNING for suicide]

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08. [WARNING for incest]

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09. [WARNING for suicide]

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So yea, sorry you're having a hard time, but it really is a fine line, and personally I'd rather be safe than sorry.
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-19 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)Eh OP I know you're going to get a bunch of comments about "OMG u judge me how dare u!?", so I'll just raise my hand and say I agree. I don't know much about Hydra Trash Party in particular, but fandom in general has a really big schlick fest when it comes to romanticizing and eroticizing rape and non-con, and it really, really puts me off.
Seeing the character I like busted up and bleeding, their asshole ripped from forced sex and their mind basically broken and defeated is not in any way "hot" to me and it's so, so far from my own experience as someone who suffered sexual abuse that I just...eughhgh. Ultimately I'm not "judging" in that I don't think any of this should be illegal or that anyone should have their right to read it or write it taken away, but I can freely say I absolutely cannot be friends with people in fandom who find this sort of thing sexy. It grosses me out, full stop. And the people who like it kind of inevitably gross me out too. Reading tumblrs about how X character is so hot when he's been "raped bareback and full of stranger's cum and streaks of his own blood" is a pretty sure way to have me running for the /r/Eyebleach subreddit. Getting off to sexual non-con violent rape just feels like a whole different realm to me.
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 12:29 am (UTC)(link)1) perhaps because it's so personal to you, you're literally incapable of imagining someone who has a healthy distinction between what they find hot and what they find good, and blame other people for your own inability to compartmentalize
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2) you are making good faith efforts not to see shit you don't like, and the people who like HTP *AND* ignore your boundaries in ways that result in you knowing they like it anyway tend to creep you out, because ignoring boundaries is an inherently creep behavior
but there are people who like HTP stuff and respect your boundaries and don't bring it up around you. they don't creep you out bc they're not creepy, but you don't realize they're into the thing, so you don't know non-creepy people sometimes like it
also I'm pretty sure everyone who considers themselves HTP likes some things and not others - all the things you listed squick me out, but there's other things under the HTP umbrella that I do like
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 12:12 am (UTC)(link)(In b4 whiny kinksters bawwwww'ing about "kink-shaming" lol.)
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 12:49 am (UTC)(link)ITT: literally no one knows what 'romanticization' means
(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 12:22 am (UTC)(link)that said failure-to-tag is not cool, people who want to avoid it 1000% should have the tools to do so
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 12:28 am (UTC)(link)I'm not drawing any claims about HTP one way or the other, but just saying "I'm totally aware of the problematic aspects, and not romanticizing them" doesn't actually mean that you're aware of them or not romanticizing them.
It's kind of like how if I say that I'm not racist, that's not in itself proof that I'm not racist. You know?
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 12:31 am (UTC)(link)Why the hell would Hydra waste its most valuable assent on weird BDSM sex? Why would they risk damaging the soldier with that kind of physical and sexual abuse? Why is everyone in Hydra hardcore into kink and Eyes-Wide-Shut style sex parties?
And for the love of god why is hardcore BDSM imagery/kinks ALWAYS associated with evil and noncon? Where's my CONSENSUAL knife and bloodplay goddamit?
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(Both stories that had it also contained rape, but the rapists were different characters than the ones who led consensual bloodplay. I'm not sure if I should link--I wrote it years ago, so it might suck.)
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 12:43 am (UTC)(link)It doesn't seem like they ever did anything personal with him. He was either frozen or on a job. Also, he isn't the wilting flower that people make him out to be. He is obviously used to leading a squad and I highly doubt the upper management would undermine his authority by gangbanging him.
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 12:52 am (UTC)(link)I have no stake in the HTP debate, but I 100% agree raunchy kinky bloodplay bdsm doesn't need the noncon vibe. Tbh, I'm pretty tired of all the straight up rape fics in fandom right now. I'm not saying I need my otp to be safe, I'm not saying they need to be sane, I'm just saying I'd them to be a bit more consensual.
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 01:10 am (UTC)(link)Also, the Winter Soldier has the super soldier serum, he could heal pretty fast from that kind of torture, I think. They could've used the rape/torture to annihilate his persona or idek "training" him in case he was captured (sexual abuse is used in prisons irl). I mean, there are a lot of scenarios there that could have at least a little bit of sense, especially in the early years of the Winter Soldier project. ...even more sense than a LOT of popular tropes in other fanfictions.
idek, talking about realism in this kind of setting just... doesn't seem right. I don't know if this makes sense though.
too tired to care
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But ykinmk and all that.
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(Anonymous) 2016-08-20 02:17 pm (UTC)(link)I guess what I'm trying to say that it is incredibly condescending of you to simply put it down to people 'getting off' when IMO, the psychology behind why people want to read/write it is far more complicated than that and doesn't make them "sick".
Even if it is about a rape- kink, you do realise that sexual fantasies about rape are common? (Particularly women fantasizing themselves as the 'victim'. In HTP, I don't know the particular psychology. Maybe it's Bucky being a stand in for the woman as 'victim', maybe the Hydra members are the stand in. I once read an article that said that when a man fantasizes about sex, he is both fantasizing himself as both the woman and man at the same time.)
Also, as much as everyone loves Bucky, he is a fictional character. He isn't real. It's not as though the people reading/writing the fics are going to then go out and find a man and then gang rape him.