[ SECRET POST #6316 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6316 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 37 secrets from Secret Submission Post #903.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Give us that secret that has been burning up you soul, which you never dared tell, today?

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

I secretly wish I could have grown up in seventies San Francisco, and I have no idea why.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Huh.

The 70s, specifically? Why?

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

We really need another round of myxomatosis, there are just too many goddamn rabbits around right now. It is legit causing problems with woodland regeneration and run off erosion.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

They need to make rabbit meat more popular.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

I want WW3 to start so we can just get it over with.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't want it to start for another couple of months. I'm at a placement which isn't near a primary target, let me get back home to a city which has a maor military target right next to it.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Not until Deadpool 3 comes out, please.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe not ww3 but I couod do with a general societal collapse.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Members of our armed forces and press keep talking up a new world war and calling us a new prewar generation. I got news for them, I am not dying for King and Country. If they even think about calling me up, they can just shoot me for cowardice right now. At least I won't have to travel to my death or do a lot of marching to get to it. The Sergeant Major can polish his own brass buttons.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

You dumbass.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

I've gone back and forth over whether or not I have BPD. Since some of its symptoms overlap with autism, it can be hard to tell sometimes; but if it turns out I do have it, I'm never fucking disclosing that to my RL people - they recently had a friend with a BPD diagnosis die by his own hand, and I don't want to give them any reason to be hypervigilant over me. Is that a selfish way of looking at it?

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

why should you ever disclose your diagnosis to your friends to begin with, if you are not comfortable with that? that's not selfish at all.
i know that internet nowadays is all about disclosing all our labels and this phenomenon could even pressure you do to it IRL, but NO. I don't think it's healthy. people are not entitled those information about you.
the amount of people that knows i have bipolar disorder and ADHD is very very small (3: my mom, my sis and my BFF) and I don't disclose it to people that i know will not help me. BPD is even more stigmatised and misunderstood than bipolar disorder so yeah, i get you.

the only think you should probably do is trying to get professional help. even if symptoms are similar you probably need guidance from a professional therapist to really understand what's going on with you.
and maybe if you are at risk of suicide, talk to the person you are living with or you are the closest to and kindly ask them to keep an eye out for you. try carefully because of personal boundaries etc. it's difficult, i know.
all the best.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

My friend/coworker had BPD and disclosed this to a few select people so we could get him help if he went off his medication (he'd gone to Vegas and spent thousands at one during a manic episode.)

Do tell someone who can help if you need it, but you don't have tell everybody.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Wouldn't an official diagnosis from a medical professional give you a more definitive and useful answer to whether or not you have BPD?

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Spay/Abort should be practice at every shelter. If you are a shelter that is allowing dogs/cats to give birth, you are a BAD shelter. I don't care if the animal is one day from giving birth, if you can get it into surgery do a spay/abort.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

I suck so bad that I once tried cheating on my boyfriend and couldn't even do it because it was hooking up with a guy from out of town who didn't even have a place to stay. I definitely couldn't host him. I don't know what I was thinking.
...This doesn't even count how I was basically having phone sex and flirting with this guy nonstop when not with my boyfriend...
And seeing a sugar daddy on the side as well...

I know, I'm a mess. I regret all of it and am glad he never found out about all of that.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

I was actually thinking of making one of these threads today, so thank you anon!

Personally, I'd prefer having a secrets community devoted to (social) media over fandom. There are a lot of secrets I'd love to make pertaining to things ranging from Instagram niches to The Atlantic (magazine) being a neurotic disaster.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Reckon I might be autistic.

What should I name them?

[(Anonymous)]

I am irrationally angered by all the posts I see of people posting pictures of new pets asking the internet to name them. I hate them so much. And they just keep coming.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm back in the hole of 2023. I was doing so much better in the new year, but now I'm back to massively depressed, panic attacks all the time, barely functioning. Getting flack at work. People are noticing. But I just don't know how to help myself.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

Life is good. I'm having a good time. I don't have any problems or pressing issues. My friends are cool. My family is chill. My partner is great. Work and hobbies are fulfilling and my lifestyle isn't exactly conventional but I'm at the age and financial status where I don't give a fuck and do what I want, at least to reasonable degrees. I wish everyone else could have this, too.

Ain't nobody wanna hear that shit.

Dating

[(Anonymous)]

I've never been on a date and I feel like I missed the window and it is too old to start now. I mean who wants to date a 42yo who has never gone on a date or been in a relationship?

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

I sleep with earplug in every night, and I reuse the same pair for like two years before getting new ones. I don't produce much earwax at all, but they do still get icky after a while. I continue to use them anyway. It's gross but I don't care. I have the (probably unfounded) belief that my own earwax coating them makes me less likely to develop an allergy to the material the way I did with the pink kind I used to use.

Re: Non-fandom secrets.

[(Anonymous)]

The older I get the more I realize how indoctrinated we all are in centering men, and it makes me angry and sad.

I keep wondering why seemingly subtle and small things seem to make me uneasy and I realize it's because I'm clocking in how I or my friends/peers center a man/men and how it fucks me/women over.
For example, I began to notice how one friend often showed off all the great things going on in his life but he never praised or complimented me or our other friends in our group chat when the rest of us showed off things we were proud of or excited about.
I then also noticed how enthusiastic I am in listening to his issues and giving him words of encouragement but he never really reciprocated.
It took me a while to realize that this friend, even if he's gay, still benefits from me being interested in his life because I am so used to supporting others in my life (especially those I care a lot about) due to the social conditioning of girls thinking of helping others and being invested in their life almost more than my own.
My friend is a guy and he doesn't have to think about how the women in his life show up for him and that he likely takes advantage of his position as a man without even really realizing that he can be rather shit at showing up for his friends because he wasn't socially conditioned to put others he cares for before him.

I have another friend who often says she's a strong independent woman who doesn't need a man...yet she often throws other women aside or does things to pit herself against other women when a guy comes around.
Even if it's not for romantic attention, she'll do things to "prove" she's better than the rest of us. Or she'll completely disregard women's experiences and place her trust and support on a man.
Not always but she does it when it's a man she's invested in.

Johnny Depp? Johnny Depp is an old washed up actor, MONSTER!
Ansel Elgort? He's young and talented, he's made mistakes, everyone deserves a second chance.

I see you, girl. I see you and it makes me uncomfortable how you still pick and choose certain men to put on a pedestal.