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(Anonymous) 2013-09-26 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)I don't know what to say, really. Because you can't help being turned off by it, but the author can't be expected to 'warn' for it either. Tagging it or making readers aware would be making a bigger deal out of it than it is, 'othering' it. I think taking a risk some readers won't like it is better than being all 'WARNING: TRANS* PEOPLE" and risking genuinely hurting people :/ You wouldn't 'warn' for cis people, there's no reason to 'warn' for those who are trans*.
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(Anonymous) - 2013-09-27 05:44 (UTC) - Expand(frozen comment) If you actually need to ask "is this 'whatever'phobic?" the answer is always yes.
Hey, if you think trans needs a warning, why did you not ask that this get a F!S warning label and go in the warning section? You know it is because you'd be flame roasted over that.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-26 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)So yeah, if you want a "warning" I think PIV would be the thing to warn for.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-26 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)It's not a warning, just... a thing. If I were making spicy food, I would say that it was spicy, not just to warn off the people who don't like spicy food, but to attract the people who love it.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-26 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)first, fanfic readers are used to being able to sort what they want to read by pairing, sexual situation, etc. So, normally, everything possibly relevant is tagged. degree of tagging varies, but normally any AU aspect would be tagged, so generally I'd expect it to be tagged (something like: X/Y; transX; AU: bakery; UST; warnings: unicorns).
second, the story in question involves a twist; the writer presumably wanted this to be a surprise. so, the problem is either to tag but hide it under a spoiler (X/Y spoiler warning: transX, etc) and let readers choose their level of surprise, or keep it extra cloaked by adding an umbrella "unusual sexual situation" tag. Personally, I'd go for the first because labeling something "unusual" opens its own can of worms.
third, there's the issue of whether or not to bring this up to the author. Obviously, you do not want to offend and since this is something close to the authors RL as well, the waters are extra murky. obviously, you can simply move on and not say anything (this is easy). or, you can leave a review comment wherein you praise the parts you loved (the build up, the relationship, etc) and leave it at that. and, if you're feeling particularly brave, you might also mention that "personally, the sex wasn't my cup of tea,". to avoid it devolving into wank, any suggestion about re-tagging things should probably be a private message.
finally, there's no need to conflate your not liking a fictional story featuring a transperson (a matter of personal taste and perfectly fine) with being transphobic (a matter of how you react to and treat transpeople in RL).
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-26 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)Most fic writers let people know what their story contains.
1. Is the fic an AU?
2. Does it have an OC main character/s?
3. Does the fic have smut, violence, or excessive language?
5. What, if any, pairings are featured in the fic?
So no, I don't think it should be considered offensive to expect it to be mentioned in the summary. Unless you consider the things I listed above to be offensive.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-26 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)That said, assuming that the sex is gonna be PIV is pretty iffy (unless, of course, it was. Then it's the author's fault). Many, if not most, trans people are uncomfortable with using those parts of their bodies in ways that are employed by people without dysphoria. So sex with a trans person will, more often than not, be nothing like sex with a cis person with similar anatomy. Just a note on assumptions.
But yes, you're entitled to having a preference.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 12:05 am (UTC)(link)If you aren't comfortable asking the author to tag for trans, maybe you can suggest for them to tag for AU? Since that's how the fic would be properly categorized.
Just stay away from variants of the word "warn".
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 12:05 am (UTC)(link)Surely, the author can appreciate that not everyone is turned on by the same things.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 12:06 am (UTC)(link)But ... as soon as Guy #1 is revealed to be a FtM, you bail because you assume that PIV is the only sex that will happen (or did you actually skim ahead, and know that for sure don't bother with the rest of my comment. And my apologies.)
Because ... even if guy #1 isn't fully transitioned there are quite a few very pleasurable activities that don't necessarily involve his "original equipment" at all .. but then your squick is not my squick, of course. to me the sexy thing about sex is the intimate physical and emotional interaction between (in this case two) entities, and not which (or if) Tab A goes into what Slot B.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 12:14 am (UTC)(link)From a purely physical standpoint, sure, they might be the same. But fic that makes a cis character trans* generally also explores some elements of trans* life, such as gender dysphoria. Putting aside genderbending fics where the bent character is and always has been the opposite gender (ie, originally cis F character becomes born-and-raised cis M character), the distinction I'm making is sort of this:
Trans* storytelling- M character self-identifies as male although he retains female anatomy; he wants his body to be aligned with his gender identity.
Genderbending storytelling- cis M character's body is transformed into a F one. He has been one physical gender and now is the other physical gender. In most cases, he retains his male gender identity.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 12:15 am (UTC)(link)Just what the fuck ???
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 02:58 am (UTC)(link)Like I get really pissed off when I see a that a story has a lot of potential but the plot doesn't go the way I want it to. Or if a story scraps a character I loved. But in the end I just have to enjoy the parts I enjoyed and move on from the parts I didn't.
So you enjoyed the first half and and the build up, so remember that, and move on.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 03:26 am (UTC)(link)So, same for the trans* thing, especially if the character isn't trans* in canon. To me that's along the same lines as a genderbent fic. That's definitely something someone would indicate as it might not be everyone's cup of tea.
But then again, sometimes I wonder if we as fandom at large over-label things. Books don't come with warning labels of any kind, after all. But, so long as it's the general fandom norm to list pairings and tags and warn for certain things, I don't think it's unreasonable to at least include a tag for a trans* character (who's not one in canon), even if it's not exactly a warning.
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as a sidebar, i used to be sympathetic to the desires of those with trans headcanons but then i spent a week in the tumblr tag and now i hate this trope with the fiery passion of a thousand prometheus dicks. which prometheus doesn't even have because he's trans look at me im so progressive
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 09:03 am (UTC)(link)I do think that it should be tagged or there should be a content note mentioning that the story has trans*!Whoever because then people who WANT trans*!Whoever fic will be able to find it and people who don't can avoid it. After all, if you're writing a fic about a character being trans*, wouldn't you want to advertise to people who want to read about the character being trans*? So why WOULDN'T you put some kind of note on there to let people know?
Just a note. Not a warning.
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