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But then, I'm likely sexist, too, so eh. No one's happy with the way woman in general are portrayed, I think.
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A+
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Brought to you by courtesy of The King's Speech.
Re: Brought to you by courtesy of The King's Speech.
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In a fandom I'm in, a character got bashed because she showed weakness in something that would be outside of her comfort zone; it's totally understandable, but it got bashed like crazy. I kind of hate that mentality.
But yeah, I hear you.
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Variety is what makes the difference, at least for me. It doesn't bother me as much when shows have different types of female characters as it does when it just has one or two that all fit into the stereotypes.
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It's boring otherwise.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-22 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)And by 'people', I mean fandom in general, not the OP or any particular commenter.
Basically, I feel like the television landscape is full of diverse and interesting female characters but they're all judged as lacking some basic requirement that makes a 'good' female character.
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go deeper into the world of television and movies then because there are lots of insecure, witty, mean but lovable, etc bitches out there that rock
you're just being another whiny female on fs
dumb cunt
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-22 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)Is it so hard to write a normal woman with a defined personality and a balanced amount of flaws and qualities? I'm trying not to generalize, plenty of shows have great, well written females but I keep running in walking stereotypes and this upsets me a little.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-22 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)http://www.overthinkingit.com/2008/08/18/why-strong-female-characters-are-bad-for-women/
... I'm not sure about Belle as an example of "nerdy and awkward," but I think the rest is spot-on.
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(Anonymous) 2011-10-22 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)But I know how you feel, it's such bullshit that only violent and sexually aggressive character are touted as brilliant modern examples of a REAL WOMAN. If you're not shooting enemies up and flirting left and right you're just a whiny little girl, go play with your Barbies.
RIVER SONG I'M LOOKING AT YOU. FUCK.
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Here's an article I really liked on lazy portrayals of women beyond typical damsel-in-distress complaints (http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-obnoxious-assumptions-hollywood-makes-about-women/#ixzz1bYS4416j):
I'm not saying women don't get angry for no good reason sometimes. Everybody does. I'm saying that the fact that a female character is hostile to a man right off the bat, without him having done anything bad, is apparently supposed to make us go, "Yes! She's strong and independent!" and sympathize with her, instead of wondering what her problem is. [...]
There's two reasons for this. One is just lazy writing. They can't think of a reason, so they just leave it as is, call it a day, and go do cocaine.
The other is that this is really how the writers see women. Their only picture of a "tough" woman is of a bitchy militant feminist who will scream at you for saying "Congressman" instead of "Congressperson." Tough women never have sensible reasons for getting upset (like being automatically denied a promotion because "you'll probably want to have babies in a few years"), but are just paranoid against men. But all the other women seem to rally behind them when they make a scene, so general anti-male paranoia must be what women admire.
These very well might be the guys that ogle women at the gym and get yelled at for it, and then tell stories later about how they were minding their own business at the gym and one of those oversensitive women that "sees rapists everywhere" threw a fit for no reason. So when it's time to pander to the female audience, they write a character based on what the lady at the gym looks like through their eyes (irrationally hostile towards a nice guy), expecting women to cheer for her like they supported the gym lady.
But it doesn't work like that. Most women, when they see another woman react to a man who says, "Hi, my name is Pete," by punching him in the balls, tend to stare in horror rather than whooping in sister solidarity. If this turns out to be a pattern, we're more inclined to suggest counseling than to admire her independence.
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