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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-29 12:11 pm

[ Anon Meme ]

F!S Anon Meme (the Seventh, and now on DW!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff.

Unpopular Ships
Obligatory Masturbation Thread
Fandoms you wish existed
How old are you?
What series have you always meant to watch/read/play/etc. but have never?
Time and location
Female-centric works
How do you feel about Tumblr?
Pet thread
Guilty pleasure thread
Favorite old shows
First fandom?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
Is a kinkmeme the right or wrong place to start out writing stuff for a certain fandom? I like it because it's anon... but it's also a huge fandom and I wonder if it's also the easiest place to get eaten alive.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 04:22 am (UTC)(link)
I've heard of a lot of people starting out on kinkmemes. Lots of prompts and the freedom of anon helps a lot.

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kink irl

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
(inspired by fetlife anon)

if someone wants to enter the kink community or just meet kinky people irl, how should they go about it?

because online sites like fetlife are full of creeps

Re: kink irl

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
SA who said this on the other thread:

I recommend Fet for purposes of finding events in your area. Not necessarily play parties, there's munches and sloshes as well. Doooo nooooot meet someone from Fet in RL (I have a sob story about this, although I'm sure at some point it's turned out well for someone), meet them in RL and THEN friend them on Fet.

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
I hate to speak ill of the dead, but so many of the changes to the Ben 10 franchise made under Dwayne McDuffie's watch pissed me off, and so did his reactions to questions on his website.

Really looking forward to Omniverse's streamlined approach, though.

Weird or what

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
Everytime I have a sexy dream I have a dick for some reason. Then I wake up trying to find my erect cock. This shit is creeping me out.

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Been there. I have dreams where I have a dick and I'm masturbating and wake up and am so confused for a moment. And then I'm sad.

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Anon Recognition

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
Everyone probably have done this before - have an account but post as an Anonymous user anyway. So...

How often do you read anon comments and think, "I bet this is X" or "Y" or "Z"?

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 07:55 am (UTC)(link)
On a certain kink meme, oh yes, so very often. Here on FS, nope, not at all.

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Hello kinky anons.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:00 am (UTC)(link)
There's been some discussion here on a lack of a space for discussion for fandom kinky people.

Also, vanilla people write BDSM stuff, and could occasionally want advice, y/n?

So would anyone be interested in a kinky anon meme or kinky sock community or something?

Re: Hello kinky anons.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. Yes I would be interested in such a community.

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
ookiku furikabutte

the japanese fandom is huge and gigantic but there's barely anything over here in the english speaking side of fandom, probably because it's a sports manga/anime.

I don't even like sports but I love it to death

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
OOPS I MEANT TO PUT THIS IN THE FANDOMS YOU WISH EXISTED POST

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TMI

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
LET'S GO LET'S GO LET'S DO THIS

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:10 am (UTC)(link)
I keep peeing myself and I don't know why. This is very off-putting.

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Anyone else fucking hate woobies?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
Or am I the only one?

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
Seeing as how often people complain about them, I don't think you are.

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i chews u, ReGyuLAR(s)

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
I want to catch all the F!S people, and the anons with special shticks, in pokeballs. Organise them into teams for specific fandom adventures, and de-evolve them into cute babby starters.

Re: i chews u, ReGyuLAR(s)

(Anonymous) 2012-07-31 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
let me guess

case is a wooper?

Writing Fic

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 06:29 am (UTC)(link)
I had such great ideas when I was at work today for my WIP and I scribbled them all down and said "I'm totally going to write when I get home."

I have not written anything yet tonight. No one has been reading the fic, so it doesn't really matter, but I still feel guilty :/

Re: Writing Fic

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 10:44 am (UTC)(link)
Aww, anon. I totally get you - writing is a bajillion times harder than getting ideas. But it should also be fun. Don't get discouraged from writing it, but don't make yourself feel bad either.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
So once upon a time I joined a fandom. Now I'm dating one of the bigger creators of it. How wrong am I doing fandom? ^_^

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 08:21 am (UTC)(link)
#humblebrag

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I could say I was shocked that the whole Smashed/Wrecked kerfluffle ended up on wank_report*, and that someone suggested that he lies about his past to get sympathy/more readers.

But honestly?

Let him hang. All this did was give me another reason to not sign on for his bullshit.

* Read here: http://www.journalfen.net/community/wank_report/1488.html?thread=8540880#t8540880

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
wow

I saw a few of his reads of harry potter thought they were "okay" and then forgot about him

so glad I didn't keep visiting his blog

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Revenge

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 06:57 am (UTC)(link)
I wish the two youngest characters (the bartender's brother and Victoria's daughter) would DISAPPEAR. I hate the bartender's brother so much it's hard to watch. I keep skipping his parts but his idiotic fake accent keeps piercing my ears when he slips in. Oh and his hair is stupid.

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 07:59 am (UTC)(link)
this but also not feeling jack. These three characters have me grinding my teeth every scene they're in. There's just something about them I really can't seem care about. Makes me feel bad I feel so little about them. But to me they're flat.:(

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Loki/Stark single father AU recs?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 07:30 am (UTC)(link)
I had a thought and now I want to read it.

AUs where Stark is...well, stark/iron man. Leave that unchanged.

But Loki is a single father of 3 special needs children. Extra points if any fic has him with a criminal record/minor theft.


But I'll take any Loki-is-a-single-father recs. Stark not needed, but preferred.
agentcthulhu: knitted yellow-green cthulhu in black suit and sunglasses (Default)

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[personal profile] agentcthulhu 2012-07-30 07:48 am (UTC)(link)
Loki-is-a-single-father, mpreg, temporary loss of magic, under Avengers house arrest, has special needs children. WIP.
http://archiveofourown.org/works/453030?view_full_work=true

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 07:51 am (UTC)(link)
Basking in the fact this anon meme has the less vitriol I've seen in a while.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 08:06 am (UTC)(link)
It makes me so sad that my friends don't get multishipping.
So if one ships A/B and the other A/C everything's fine; they politely agree to disagree. But if I ship both A/B and A/C and maybe A/D too and a dash of A/B/C then I'm an awful traitor to all pairings.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 10:46 am (UTC)(link)
Alphabet orgies are the funnest, your friends don't know what they're missing.

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 08:25 am (UTC)(link)
I want to fill prompts on a kink meme, but I'm not a native speaker and I'm not confident enough in my grasp of the language to dare try.

People have told me to do it anyway, but I saw someone else try it once, in such a cringeworthy babelfish-like gibberish, that it gave me the worst case of second-hand embarrassment ever, not to mention a raging paranoia: what if I'm just as bad, or even worse?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 08:28 am (UTC)(link)
D: I feel your pain, anon. I feel your pain.

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Has RPF always had a stigma?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
Okay so when I first got into fandom it was in the late 1990s. I guess this was a time where online fandoms were still a new thing and you kind of had to know where to look and what to search to find things. (Also you had to be accepted into yahoo groups or what have you to read FF and things seemed generally much more contained.)

I always seemed to ship real people as a young teenager. Singers, mostly, but sometimes people on TV shows or even athletes. Back then I never heard of people getting weirded out by this.

I don't know if it is because now fandom is big and open and people go around linking people without thinking, but RPF seems like a big no-no these days. I don't know how I feel about that. The older I get the less I care about shipping real people but it kind of fascinates me.

Did I just miss out on drama back in the olden days or is this also going hand in hand with Social Justice or what-have-you?

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 10:23 am (UTC)(link)
I think the problem some people have is how accessible some celebrities are now with things like facebook and twitter. I've heard people say they get bad second hand embarrassment being apart of a fandom that openly links and sends RPF to that celebrity or people connected to them.

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Olympic orgy lol

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 10:33 am (UTC)(link)
For some reason I've always imagined the athlete's village to be like one big orgy for 2 weeks with the swim teams getting the most action because the commentators always seem to sound like they're so enamored with them all, so I get this idea they're the most propositioned.

Re: Olympic orgy lol

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especially after news reports in 2004 and 2008 that the villages ran out of condoms after like only a couple days. ALL THAT PENT UP SEXUAL TENSION.

and the swimmers are totally doing everyone all the time whatever it is true.





except m.phelps who just sits in the corner and cries into his millions of gold medals.

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late to the party

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I hate this, when I come to an anon meme only to find it's dying out or maybe already dead.

Re: late to the party

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 01:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I almost missed it, too, because I always read the secret posts the day after they get posted, so I thought the scheduled date was Monday not Sunday (which would admittedly have been a bit weird in retrospect). /cool story bro

You can come visit Fail-Fandomanon on LJ, if you'd like, though. It's my go-to anon meme.

Fandom Cold Feet

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 01:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I wrote out part of a story for a fandom I like. The problem is that the fandom is kind of known for being a little elitist, the last story I wrote got good concrit but it was pretty blunt (I appreciate the hell out of this like any writer should but my self esteem is in a bad place recently so it's hard to swallow), and I haven't posted anything I've written in a real long time. I'm writing in a weird style too where I've seen secrets posted where people will outright skip fics written in the style.

It makes me all really really self conscious and I keep second guessing myself and thinking "who would want to read this." It's gotten more exhausting than enjoyable to write and I'm having a really hard time just letting go and writing for myself. It's hard to disconnect from the fact that it's a story I'm writing specifically for other people for the purpose of communicating a story I really want to tell and stop being so motherfuckin self conscious about it.

Anybody else have a similar problem? The funny part is I'm going to post it anonymous if i ever finish it and I'm still being this nervous. Sigh.

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I love writing and have been meaning to write some fanfic but the prospect of other people ignoring or hating on my pieces is enough to stop me from writing.

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 02:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Am I the only one who doesn't actually mind fangirls and hates the connotations of fangirl as an insult? Lol I'm going to get called an SJW for this.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)
No, not at all. There's nothing wrong with being a fangirl. If it annoys you, then go to a different part of the internet. And why is SJW an insult anyway? It's like a vicious ad hominem- calling someone a "SJW" online is used as a cheap ploy to dismiss anything and everything somebody says without examining the person's argument. It's intellectually lazy.

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 03:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Bones/Uhura

And not just to "get Uhura away from Spock" (I like Spock/Uhura too) but because Bones and Uhura are my favorite characters and I enjoy their few interactions in TOS.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I thought you were talking about a femslash pairing, Bones the forensic anthropologist and Uhura.

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 03:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I love it....FOR the SJWs. Haters gonna hate.

Actually, as far as fandom stuff goes, I prefer LJ because it's easier to interact with people. My tumblr is mostly a social justice/art blog where I reblog poetry and photography and read interesting academic articles. Most of my tumblr fangirling consists of looking at pretty graphics.

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